Guys Its now been two months since my girlfriend broke up with me. At first i thought id be ok, staying positive. So far ive only talked to a small hand full of girls and havent had a sniff of anything that id be remotely attracted to. I now cant help but think that my ex gf WAS in fact out of my league, she was pretty, thin, smart and had a good personality. She was also very shallow and mean sometimes, but she did love me and i cant get passed that. I have run into the problem now that she has a new boyfriend and she is all healed, and moved on. I know what i need to do, i need to go out, and meet people and hook up. Problem is i live in a small town, the ex lived in a city 2 hours away. She has hundreds of friends, lots of things to do, i live in a small town, i have one work mate who doesnt like going out and apart from that i have no other mates. I cant help but wonder if this was the one that ill be talking about for years...ie "yeah i once went out with a super hot chick...etc" i dont want it to be but at the moment my social life is so stale that i dont know what to do. I hate to think that she was so much better than me but im almost starting to beleive it, i dont want to lower my standards, i definately dont want to get back with her, but i dont want someone who im gonna be wishing was something more....if you hear me. I know time will heal these wounds, but at the moment the wounds are still quite deep and dont show any signs of healing soon.