I dont know what to do. I just can not finish. No matter what she does I can not possibly finish. On my own, I can be done in under 3 mins. I can remember two occasions where I finished. They were both hand jobs and oddly enough they were a day or two apart with two different girls. And to make it even weirder, I finished with girl A while I imagined girl B was the one doing it. And with girl B I imagined girl A was doing it. Any ideas what could be the problem? The last girl I was with actually suggested I should go to the doctor, but I think its kind of embarasing. I went one time to get anti depresesants (sp?) . I could not come back because I just couldnt stand being asked all those personal questions face to face by a total stranger. edit; If I did decide to go to a doctor. What branch of medicine deals with this sort of thing.