I can't cum when I have sex

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  1. SubThermal

    SubThermal Colder than Cold

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    i've been going out with this girl for a little over a month

    she took my virginity a couple weeks ago, we've had sex 3 times since

    but not once have i been able to finish...i can get her off easily...but i just can't cum

    i've only been able to finish once with her, when she gave me head...
    but i haven't since, head, handjobs, sex...

    i just don't know what to do...
     
  2. CasualSex

    CasualSex Stan Smith

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    I cant offer much help, but I cant really cum from sex (...yet). I'm still relatively new like you. So I think its a fairly common thing.

    For BJ's a really have to force it to cum and for sex I just cant (I blame the condom tho)
     
  3. Ms. UnderStood

    Ms. UnderStood New Member

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    Try to relax and keep a clear mind, also try doing it in different positions.
     
  4. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    This happened to me the first couple times I had sex. I would be 1-2 hours into it and no deal. Then the 4th or 5th time I felt it coming after like 5 mins and I didn't hold back. I too was with a new gf so I think my nerves played a part. I think it was more a mental block than anything else.
     
  5. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    it's mental. i didn't come my first 3 or 4 times either.
     
  6. low20

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    hm...my 1st-3rd times i lasted pretty long as well....i mean, i guess i had always expeced to blow in a second, so i kept suprosing myself and lasting a while...a while being like 30 minutes prolly of medium pace...either way, after a few more times i was like a 5-10 minute man, then i began building up again, and now we decided not to have sex, so its been like 3 months...but i find it harder to come from BJ's than anything else...
     
  7. JeSSup

    JeSSup New Member

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    ur gay u just don't kno it yet
     

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