Im 24 years old and i have had only one gf and all the girls i end up taking out i fail. I think im just average looking, but i tend to attract a good amount of girls on looks,but i fail when it comes to the game. I get alot of girls to approach me, or flirt with me, show me signs of intrest etc, but when it comes to getting any further i fail. I read alot of stuff like being a challenge, taking charge,confidence which i do have, practicing and what not,but nothing seems to work. I cant figure out what im doing wrong, it has almost gotten to the point where i want to ask some of these girls what happened after the first or second date. Am I to nice, to easy to read,to boring or what not. The girls that wont leave me alone are all the ones i dont like. They wont stop calling me,messaging me and what not. I know your going to ask what im doing different with these chicks, im doing nothing but they are not the ones i like in looks. Im not shooting for the hottest girls either, since i know im know im no model myself. I just cant figure out why after a couple dates the chicks just want to be friends or start to fuck with me and use me to take them out to eat and shit. I can only pin point maybe the one thing im doing wrong, i am a very nice guy to nice. I always show a girl respect and treat them nice, i cant seem to be a ass to them. My buddies make fun of me cause they dont know what the hell im doing wrong. They just keep saying you have to treat them like shit,but that is not in my nature. I have a hot date this thursday i would say a 9 on the scale, and i want to freshen up a bit on things to try to better myself. Maybe i get to nervous and im not myself and tense up around these girls and they can sense that. Maybe the dinner deal is just getting like every other date they go on and is a bit boring? I cant come to a conclusion,my mind just keeps racing asking myself what the hell is going on.