I cannot understand for one second why I can't get girls

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  1. Nev

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    I'm at a huge school, I'm a good looking guy who goes out and has fun all the time. When I'm out, I talk to girls, I'll get numbers, etc...but the follow up is a problem. I meet plenty of girls, but nothing ever gets further than just that one night. I never really talk to them as friends or anything else beyond right there. I'm not talking about one-night stands either...most are just girls that I meet and talk to at the bar. Sometimes I'll call a few days later, and they dont answer...so i just leave that at that. What the hell can I do to try to fix this situation?
     
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    People don't go to bars to find relationships.
     
  5. Nev

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    well, duh... but i mentioned i dont even talk to them at ALL outside of the bar, even if they insist on giving me their number.
     
  6. Nev

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    I'm decent looking and in ok shape :dunno:

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    well its not your looks.
     
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    :bigthumb: Well put. :naughty:

    As said previously, you're not going to find someone seriously interested in a relationship at a bar...sure, it may happen, but chances arent in your favor there. Try letting the word out to friends, see if their GF's have someone who is single...that kind of thing. The whole bar scene just sucks.
     
  9. Nev

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    thx for the compliment, and..

    ..they dont even have to be interested in a relationship....it's more of that I'd just like to meet new people and keep them as friends .. if a relationship were to develop, then so be it :dunno:
     
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    how many girls have you actually tried to get with? 3, 4, 7? Did you know that when the tiger hunts, he only catches his food 1 out of 20 times. Until you've failed more than 20 times, you have no room to complain. This means that you may have to go through 19 bitches before you find a girl that will give you a chance. Be like the tiger. :bigthumb:
     
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    eh, im pretty much the epitome of sarcastic asshole. :rofl:
     
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    I talk to girls just about every single time im out at the bar, i give/get numbers the majority of the time i go out too...but there's never any follow up :dunno:
     
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    Stop trying to meet girls in bars... if it happens, then fine, good for you. But, meeting girls in everyday situations yields better results (for me anyway). For example, it's sunday night right now... tons of hot chicks go grocery shopping on sunday nights! So, go hit up your local dairy section. Just *ahem* stay away from the cottage cheese.
     
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    "yeah, so hey there .. what are you shopping for? :naughty: "

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    grocery store is a great place to meet women. because thats what they do. they get groceries, and then they bake shit
     
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    ^ :rofl:

    :uh: well...that's better than nothing. At least words are coming out of your mouth. I would say to read some dating stuff from carlos xuma or john alexander but you probably wouldn't take me seriously anyway.
     
  17. Nev

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    :rofl: I said that as a joke...but that just seems like a strange place for a 22yr old to meet girls. Maybe it's just me.
     
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    They have a place called "Club Publix" and its a 2 story grocery store. When people go there to shop they shop in there best clothes.
     
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    :werd: It's very similar to a mall:mamoru:
     
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    You're a good looking guy. Maybe bar girls look at you, and think "player"?

    Maybe it is your looks... they wonder "How many other girls has he slept with from bars this week? Am I just the next?"

    That happened to me back when I was 21. The bar was just for fun, as nobody took me seriously as a nice guy who is attractive. Girls just never believed that a guy could be both...
     
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    I'm a good looking guy too...and I know exactly what you're talking about.
     
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    i can't even count how many times i've been accused of 'player', etc.

    Like the girl i was talking to 2 nights ago:

    her: you have to have a girlfriend right?
    me: a few
    her: ???
    me: no, i dont have one
    her: yeah right, you have to!!

    and blah blah blah

    but what the fuck....
     
  23. SoySauciAl

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    yea.. dont play around like that.. lol! say "nope" or "about a year ago".. the hardest part is when a girl straight up ask how many girls you slept with.

    dont be too into them when you first met them or straight hitting on them. just be casual like your talking with another guy. act like you might want to get them a little better, but maybe not. dont say cheesy ass shit like "your gorgeous" or "what is pretty girl like you doing alone?".. be more like.. "sup.. hows it going? nice day/night isnt it?" and if they dont pick up when you call.. dont leave a boring message! make it funny and memorable! they'll call ;).. or try to get there myspace on top of the number and leave them a funny or cute picture. <-- no cheesy shit!

    cliff: be friendly and funny.. not sexy and a douche
     
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    :confused:
     
  25. Nev

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    I don't do that suckup/cheesy compliment stuff.
     

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