I can only make her come when she is on top...

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  1. akwon

    akwon New Member

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    Anyone else run into this problem? I'm average length and for some reason, I can always consistently make her come when she is on top. Ive tried other positions but they dont seem nearly as effective. I don't always want to be on the bottom to make her come. Any suggestions of really good positions?
     
  2. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    no. play with her clit while u have sex. also have her teach u how to play with her clit bc that's something i still don't feel practiced at
     
  3. Sandoz

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    This is something that happens with lots of girls, because it's the way they can control the speed, orientation etc. It's also because they don't relax enough when they're not in control. More foreplay, etc. recommended.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's because she's doing what feels good for her....you might want to consult her on what feels good....
     
  5. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    what has worked for me in the missionary position is a sort of "scoop" where you scoop your hips and also grind into her pubic bone with force.

    Instead of slamming in and out, use your hips to scoop your penis inside of her. You will hit all kinds of spots up in there, and also the more pressure you can exert on her pubic bone, the better. Your upper abs definitely get a workout from this.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    *applauds* I love when my SO does that
     
  7. Whew

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    Also, putting her legs back some works well.
     
  8. Falconer

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    Be glad your gf can cum during sex at all. Some can't.
     
  9. Sandoz

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    Give this man a cigar! :wiggle:
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Give me a cigar! I read that, plus the whole putting her legs over your shoulders, thought of my SO and got turned on dammit!
     
  11. red_fox

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    I'm not sure what you mean by scooping but this idea is interesting. can you elaborate on it?
     
  12. BATMANs

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    First off, it should be her responsibility for making her own orgasm, especially when she's on top.

    Don't let that neo-feminist ideal get in ur head that the man's job to dole out female orgasms, it's not.
     
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    That's what I do and always nets sufficients results.
     
  14. Cerridwen

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    That is the only way I can orgasm too.
     
  15. red_fox

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    could someone elaborate on scooping, please?
     

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