SRS i am not truely happy

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  1. Hypno toad

    Hypno toad Guest

    Lately I've been sad and in a funk.I am not truely happy. I wake up and I really it's one more day horrible day that i have to go throught. a couple of months back after coming back from a trip, I felt that a small group of my friends holding me back. I didn't completely isolate that but i talked to them every some often. At the same time i realize that i wasn't a Christian just because my parent were and forced me to go to church.Deep down inside i didn't feel same way about religion that i did. As the summer progressed i decided go on a journey of self-discovery and improvement. (that is on hold because i am working this summer i don't have the time or the energy afterwork :wtc:. I will take some time off before summers end. )

    I am not truely happy with myself and what ever happiness i don't feel is shallow and temporary. I occasionally hang out with anyone my friends but i am busy working (only for the summer).and along with that some of my friends have gone for the summer or working. I felt unfulfilled and unhappy. I have try to keep a positive attitude even thought i am sadly. When i am at home and that temporary happiness goes alway i work out to make me feel better. this distracts me from the fact that sad. I wake up in the morning i have no motivation for life. my life is boring and unexciting.
    I feel unloved and alone. I rarely get calls or comments or IMs from anyone.

    more details will come later but until then can someone help me out.
     
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  2. illmaceyougood

    illmaceyougood New Member

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    This might help you discuss your religious issues:

    iidb.org (atheist message board)
     
  3. crunchy_black

    crunchy_black OT Supporter

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    Chat up fat chicks on myspace?
    Works for me

    Get a shit job that has GOOD people.
     
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  5. JustJeff

    JustJeff www.youtube.com/thisisjustjeff

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    What you need is spontaneity(sp?) in your life. You are stuck in a trap many Americans are stuck in today. We get into a routine life style. I have just approached this as well, since I am working a full time desk job.

    Wake up 7 AM
    Take a shower
    Watch the news and weather/traffic report
    Leave for work at 8AM
    Arrive at work at 9AM
    Lunch break at 1PM
    Leave at 5:30PM
    Arrive home at 6:30PM
    Eat dinner
    Hop on the computer and play guitar from 7:30-9:30
    Wash up and prepare for bed
    In bed by around 10:30/11.

    Every single day, Monday-Friday.

    It sucks, but you need something random to occur in your life, and you will feel a lot better. Wake up one more and go for a mile or 2 run. Go ride your bike around town... Drive to a beach/lake front. You might even meet some new people this way too.
     
  6. red

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    Geek, if you have religion issues, wander into LAOT.

    If you just have personal issues, check out the asylum.
     
  7. Chip Chipperson

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    Positivity challenge - look it up; old self help exercise

    Start doing something with your life

    Figure out what you care about in life and do it. Depression comes from not doing what you feel are the most important things in life.

    Get laid. Doesnt matter how ugly the girl is, just get laid. It'll make for a fun story if nothing else
     
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    welcome to the ennui that pervades the lives of most people
     
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    Ian, I feel exactly like you do.
     
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    [SIZE=-1]Most men lead lives of quiet desperation

    -Henry David Thoreau
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    qft
     
  12. Hypno toad

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    this is not a religion problem
     

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