I got out of a looong relationship about a year and a half ago, and ever since, no girl wants to date me. This isn't some desperate plea of me calling myself a loser, that's not the problem. I hook up with girls constantly, but no girl ever wants to get serious with me. Most guys would find this to be a blessing, but honestly it gets tiring after a while. I'm sick of meaningless sex. I had a drunk conversation with a girl that I've had a huge crush on for a while, and I guess you can say I became a little bitch (asking questions like "why can't you see yourself with me" and shit like that ) basically, she said i'm "too much of a player" and i'd "probably cheat on her" i consoled her that I wouldn't do that. Sometimes I think she's just thinking of excuses...but on the flipside of that coin, she hooked up with me after knowing me for 2 days. So I don't think attraction/desire is the issue? I don't want to be a player and I don't have the heart of a player, I've been single for long enough and I want to settle down, hopefully with this girl. But NOTHING I say to her helps, if anything she's becoming even more distant from me. What do I do?