So 3 of my family members are sick right now. My mom, my grandfather and my uncle all underwent biopsies this week for cancer. I don't have a very good relationship with my family and I'm having a really hard time trying to care (to be completely honest). It is pretty much accepted that my grandfather has colon cancer (a very late stage of cancer that has been ignored for over a year) and has less than 6 months left to live. It has been suggested that I attempt to 'reconcile' (wrong word, but I can't think of the right one) and spend some time with him before he dies. I haven't been close to my grandfather since I was very little and I don't feel the need to do so. Why would I want to get close to someone who's going to die soon? So am I just a very cold person? Is this a normal or acceptable reaction to this news (I am simply very indifferent to it, it doesn't affect me very much at all). Should I make an attempt?