So yeah, I get crushes all the time but haven't actually liked someone in a long time. Now this guy comes along in August, his stuff is pretty damn good and I hire him right away. We talk photo (he's an equipment geek just like me ) and stuff and go our own ways. We continue this up until last week where he dropped by my place to drop some stuff off. We sat and talked for an hour, I gave him a ride back and he invited me in where we talked about stuff for another hour or so. Honestly he's perfect: he's smart (graduated from MIT, doing his master's here), has the same interests as me (photo, mountain biking, etc.), a really nice guy, down to earth, 5'11", ran cross country (read: runner's body ), has the most soulful brown eyes. So yeah, he never mentioned an old girlfriend or anything like that but I still don't know if he's gay or not and I can't tell if he's just being really friendly. He's been friendly enough to make me wonder though. Second, I'm kind of technically his boss so that could bring up issues too. If I had a female boss who hit on me I'd feel really wierded out/uncomfortable too and I don't want to put him through that. So yeah OT, what should I do?