No, not like kinky hurting. I've been seeing this girl for about 2 weeks now and after every time we have sex she says that she's real sore and it hurts. I'm not going to attempt to toot my own horn and say it's the size that hurts her, I'm trying to cover all options. Could it be because she hasn't had sex in a while and just isn't used to it again yet? Any other suggestions?