Hurting the girl during sex?

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  1. Brotato

    Brotato And by bro I mean never my bro

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    No, not like kinky hurting. I've been seeing this girl for about 2 weeks now and after every time we have sex she says that she's real sore and it hurts. I'm not going to attempt to toot my own horn and say it's the size that hurts her, I'm trying to cover all options. Could it be because she hasn't had sex in a while and just isn't used to it again yet? Any other suggestions?
     
  2. Pet3R

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    My guess is that she isn't used to the insertion and pain anymore since it has been a while. Don't quote me on this but I've heard and read that if a girl doesn't have sex regularly and starts to have sex again, it will hurt until she becomes "immune" to the pain. My ex went through this when we were together (long distance relationship, so no regular sex). Hope this helps.

    My other guess would be an infection? Doubt it is a UTI, but it is possible. But I'm sticking to my first guess.
     
  3. Brotato

    Brotato And by bro I mean never my bro

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    An infection? Haven't thought of that.

    Hoping it's the first one though.
     
  4. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    more lube.
     
  5. Brotato

    Brotato And by bro I mean never my bro

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    Really? She gets really wet. I mean it's like a super soaker.
     
  6. Brotato

    Brotato And by bro I mean never my bro

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    She said it's never hurt before other than the first couple times.
     
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    maybe you're just in the big dick club like me :h5:
     
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    :h5:
     
  9. Brotato

    Brotato And by bro I mean never my bro

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    That's what I was leaning towards, just trying to be humble:hsd:
     
  10. rizzo

    rizzo fuck you you fucking piece of shit

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    i have this same problem, she gets insanely wet to but sometimes she is in such pain after. i realize i'm somewhat well endowed but i really didn't think it was that big. now its getting less and less so many it's loosing up a little but i still feel horrible after.
     
  11. demosnat

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    Is she like raw? It could be that although she is wet, its not the right consistancy to lubricate long periods of intercourse.
    Really, try some lube.
     
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    Yes, more lube. She may get wet, but often not the right "kind" of wet. And what feels wet to you may actually not be wet enough for her.

    Try ForPlay brand lube, blue bottle.
     
  13. Brotato

    Brotato And by bro I mean never my bro

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    Thanks for the suggestions
     
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    This was happening to my girlfriend and I at the beginning, she hadn't been sexually active for about 5 months. The first few times she would experience initial pain, it would stop, and then after about 10 minutes she would start to get pain again. Use lube and try to have sex regularly till it doesn't hurt her anymore, it only took us about a week.
     
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    My wife is the same way...every time we have sex, It hurts her when I enter.
     
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    she could have a shallow vagina....I have a problem that I always nail my g/f's bladder and other shit. Don't insert all the way in, don't pound the shit out of her, and go slow for the first few minutes when you start.
     
  17. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    She needs to see a doctor to rule out any medical causes. She could have an infection, an STD, cysts, etc.
     
  18. Omnipresent

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    I actually have a problem where I get sore after sex due to the rubbing. In any position that rubs against the fleshy area below and outside my vagina...I get sore and that area looks visibly irritated. I've talked to several doctors about it, and none have seemed to have a cure. I have freakishly sensitive skin, so it's not exactly surprising. Depending on the angle/position and roughness, I'm generally good to go again in a day. It fucking blows though when I'm ready for another round, but it's too painful. I haven't heard of anyone else who's had this problem...but this could be the case in your situation. Perhaps taking a look to see if any specific part of her body looks irritated or inflamed might help you guys figure out what the problem is.
     
  19. Raggity Man

    Raggity Man Lets share the milk of human kindness

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    i had the same problem with my ex, tried lube, different condoms, positions, nothing seemed to work. still have no idea why it hurt her everytime we had sex.
     
  20. ultrawifey

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    Try a different postition?
     
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    asshole dont eat yellow snow! OT Supporter

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  22. MissJenn

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    i have the same problem :sadwavey:

    i thought at first it was because i dont usually have regular sex. but i dont think thats it though...
     
  23. iceman1123

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    do you wear magnums? are you thick?

    it is her pussy thats hurting, labia....or her cervix? i know when i hit it doggy my ex always complained i went to deep (BDC)
     
  24. YourMomOnRyeBun

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    Just as men vary in size, so do women. Not to get scientific, but you have to think of it as a dick size/pussy depth ratio.

    Ratio too high = painful pussy
    Ratio too small = girl thinks you have a little dick

    No pun intended, but you have to find the "sweet spot" in the middle.

    Try different positions where you don't go in so far. Try her on top so that she has more control as to how far you go in. If you are in too far, have her lean forward a little so you don't penetrate so far...

    Just thoughts...
     
  25. Pringles

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    I was in the same situation. The chick would always tell me the next day it hurts to walk and shit. She claimed I hit her cervex, but I doubt that. Either way you need to have lots of foreplay and go SLOWLY SLOWLY SLOWLY. She is probably tight and if you smash ram rod in there to dig for oil your gonna tear shit up. It goes away over time.
     

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