Huh, weird how things happen

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  1. tubachris85x

    tubachris85x New Member

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    So of all things, tonight, I've sort of got myself a new GF. Had a concert tonight with the band I'm in, and just got talking to one of the girls who's been in it for awhile. After, decided to ask her if she wanted to join me for some dinner, and just hit it off. I never really talked to her before that, and I found her to be a really interesting person, and we both have alot in common..talked for almost 3 hours straight at the resturant, and then came back to my place.

    One thing led to another, as the saying goes, and it feels "right." Didn't "go all the way" though, which I find is actually nice for once. She has a really great personality and very playful...really a nice change and a breath of fresh air after my last relationship. Just going to see where this goes!
     
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    congrats
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Didnt waste anytime eh? lol.

    Good luck w/ everything
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Congrats, bro. Sounds awesome.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yay! And thank the lord she's finally local!
     
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    was just curious of what kind of band, Star Wars bands are :bigthumb: in my book.

    :mamoru:
     
  7. antihero

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    hang out once and make out a little /= girlfriend.

    not trying to dump on you. if you want her to be your gf, by all means ask her to be your gf.

    girlfriend in your head and not in real life only leads to problems though.
     
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    yea really, that was quick

    good for you hope it works out, but yea, dont consider her your girlfriend on account of one night, but perhaps she will be
     
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    maybe you should take it slow and actually date a bit?
     
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    Whens the wedding?
     
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    reminds me of the star wars family guy episode, "play the same song!"
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl: That one line has me crying every single time.
     
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    It's wind band, dufus.

    Anyways, I only said "I think she's my new gf" is because she was implying that, and wants to keep seeing me. I'm going to be taking her out this weekend on an official date and take it from there. I guess another good thing, to me at least, is she's older, but only by a year or two.

    Yea, I guess you can say that this was quick, but I'm taking this one slooooow. I'm actually quite attracted to her mainly by her personality..haven't had that long of a conversation with a girl in years..
     
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    At star wars weekends this year, they have a live show at the end of the day, but star wars, and they were playing off that joke during one part. It was a "talent/dance off" thing having the cantina band on stage with the instruments, and they were taking "song requests", and it'd start with one song, then just instantly warp right into the cantina theme. Did that a few times throughout the show..fucking hilarious :rofl:
     
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    you just met the girl and you think she's your gf :rofl:
     
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    m3m750 Kickin' it old school

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    sounds like what you got is a date, not a girlfriend, but either way, good luck.
     
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    I am as well, didn't you say that you couldn't be with a girl who didn't like it?
     
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    you're in a star wars band?
     
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    He makes replica outfits I believe.
     
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    Yes, I brought it up. She actually likes what I do and is somewhat into star wars. lol I never mentioned it, but was talking about how I've been to some cons and I was bitching about the anime nerds forming dance circles around me, and she just said out of nowhere "I really wanted to go to dragoncon" and was like :cool::bigthumb:

    She's a nerd just like me!
     
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    Dragoncon is a big fantasy event.
     
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    tubachris85x New Member

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    Meh, mostly. I'm only wanting to go cause of all the cool shit to see. The con brings out alot of weirdo's though, but it's the largest gathering of nerds in the nation.


    Anyways, she just dropped by and we chilled a bit more, she went to go hang out with some friends she hasn't seen in awhile, but is going to come back here when she's done.

    Apparently her mom already knows about me and wants to meet me this saturday :noes:
     
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    Random question but when you go to nerd cons, is there still a social pecking order? Like are there..cool nerds I guess, that exclude everyone else?
     
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    Yeah... there's definetly sub-groups of the nerd culture. Just like every other type of group there are different levels of "nerdom". I consider myself a nerd even though I'm pretty built, exercise religiously, watch sports, hang out at bars/parties, play guitar, etc. However I also love video games, Harry Potter, Star Wars, LotR and other such nerdy things. That said, I wouldn't even think of going to a NerdCon event (with the exception of Penny Arcade), play WoW/D&D/MMORPG, not shower for days on end, or go to LAN gaming parties.
     
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  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    maybe I have too much faith in the original poster.

    but if I posted something like this I would say it based on my own judgment of women and human interaction and knowledge of people and basic observation skills and horse sense and common sense and gut feeling that is more reliable than any cookie-cutter advice about the friend zone.

    he knows what he knows..

    also, he just doesn't sound like he's pushing anything onto the situation that isn't there.
     

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