this is a long one so im warning you now. ok i met this girl over the summer. i really liked her alot but the problem was it got off to a very tricky start. she was already dating someone else when we got involved. she cheated on him with me and one other, but we grew pretty attached before she broke up with her bf about 2 weeks after we first kissed. another big problem huge age gap. shes 16. im 20. we have alotta mutual friends and i look/act younger than i am and she looks way older than she really is so it kinda worked for me even tho tis prabably wrong. ive grown really attached to her and shes grown really attached to me too, but we have huge problems. trust is one of them obviously. like that ex came back from college and would visit her old school and last week he came back and wanted to go to the mall w her for the day. i threw a fit. and i tend to get very jealous which i hate because im not a jealous bf at all atleast in the past. we fight about shit like this all the time. her best friend is also a guy who has a huge crush on her and is very open about it, in addition to having a fling with her about a year ago. we fight about that alot with alot of other dumb things. also, when the school year started again and i went back to college and her back to hs. her mom was really cool about me sleeping over which was cool, but turned into a mixed blessing. well now since i goto college liek 20 min away il sleep over alot and then goto college in the morning almost on a daily basis. i feel really trapped and i feel like me being here soo much is very wierd considering we DO have sex which i know is already kinda wrong and her age and everything, but her mom is totallly fine about it which is wierd. the problem is when i leave she gets really wierd and likes me sleeping over. so along with the fighting, trust issues, bickering, and feelin trapped, she told me she wants to not have sex for awhile bc she doesnt just want us dating just on great sex and nothing else. i understand that but like the last time we had sex she cried and said that we cant just have it on that, which is crazy cause weve always had a great love life. like, amazing sex. i feel like its total 16 yr old bullshit cause its obviously not gonna fix anything but i dont wana be incensitive and get mad. im so confused. im so confused cause ive never dated a girl younger than me and have always had pretty normal relationships with woman. but this one is soo wierd and confusing and yet im so dependent on her. should i dump her? where can i even begin to fix this?