This is a thread inspired by the "It sucks being cheated on" thread and the thread where the guy was snooping through his gf's cell phone. My question now is this: how did you find out? This is by far the sneakiest thing I've ever done, but I don't regret it one bit. My last girlfriend cheated on me, first with the guitarist of my band after about 11 months. I had a feeling something was going on between them. We both knew the passwords to our emails and other stuff. The one thing I didn't know was her private online journal. So one morning I waited till she got in the shower and I rushed to the computer. I logged into her email, and then went to the journal provider and sent a password request to it. I got the password, deleted the email, logged in to the journal, and read all about it. It was awful. I called her after she got out of the shower and asked her, "So, is there anything going on between you and Bob?" She says, "No, why?" I continue, "You sure?" She says, "Why? Did someone tell you something?" I say, "No, no one told me anything." She says, "Whoever told you is on my shit list." Eventually, of course, she found a way to turn it around to make me feel like it was my fault. But we dated for a few more months 'cause I was a puss. We broke up after 18 months because she was cheating on me with someone else. I learned later on from a friend that she also messed with this guy at a party she went to while we were dating. This girl was ridiculously fucked up. The first 9 months, she was on Paxil. She was one of the nicest, sweetest girls I've ever met. After she stopped taking it she became psychotic. No joke. I knew something was going on. I had to do it.