FRK How were you introduced to the freaky sex?

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  1. sagwa1

    sagwa1 New Member

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    Here's my story:
    Random story: VERY LONG, but any comments would be appreciated.

    When I was 17, there was this 26 year old guy, who was "soliciting" on the phone. Basically, he would call my work and randomly offer his "services" to various people. When I started working there they all warned me about him. You know, saying he was a freak and all. The more they warned me, the more curious, and intrigued I became. So then he calls, we talk, and then he comes in and introduces himself. The guy was HOT.I asked if he had a gf, he said no. (Later I found out this wasn't true) We spent the first few months meeting in random hotels, and engaging in all kinds of sex. Before it was over, we were into some VERY hardcore activites (BDSM & fetishes among other things). I was very nervous at first because until then I had only had one sexual experience. By this point we realized that the relationship was becoming much much more than a casual fuck buddy relationship.

    The relationship became exclusive, and a year later he proposed. I said no, for reasons he was already aware of. It wasn't a rejection, so much as it was "not at this time". Over the next 8 1/2 years, he asked me to marry him 3 more times, and sexually we had tried just about everything either of us could imagine. The great thing was, we were comfortable enough to talk openly about pretty much everything, or so I thought.

    After 6 years we bought a house together, and within a year, I realized he was still making the "solicitation" calls (the same calls that brought us together). Ok, it didn't really bother me, as long as he wasn't having sex with anyone else. And as long as he was willing to share that with me, at least to some extent. I didnt necessarily need details, but I didn't want to call home one night and accidentally hear one of those conversations, which is exactly what happened. We talked about it, he promised not to hide things from me. I just wanted to know what was going on. I wanted him to talk to me about what he wanted/needed, and to be given the chance to take care of it for him. Its not like I would have criticized him, or made him feel bad.

    There were a few things over the years that I wasn't comfortable with, at least initially. It wasn't a final NO, it was more, "I'm just not there yet. GIve me a chance to think it through in my head, and then lets revisit the idea." As a 17-18 year old, its pretty overwhelming for a guy that I was deeply in love with, to ask me to hurt him alot.

    I always say, "I'll try anything once, and sometimes twice.". Just because your first experience with something isn't a complete success, doesnt mean that it cant be better. For example, the first time I let him fuck me in the ass, I was in extreme pain, it was an all around bad experience. However, when we tried it again, it got better. By the third time, it was one of my most memorable and pleasurable experiences. And thats still true today, 12 years later.

    I'm very thankful for the experiences that came out of that relationship. Although most people would have looked down upon it, and yes it was a huge risk for me to take, in the end it was worth the risk. By the time that relationship ended, I had lost nearly all of my inhibitions. After giving birth to my daughter over 3 years ago, I lost a few more. Now, I feel I've lost as many inhibitions as possible. Of course there are some things that are still off limits, but not because I am inhibited, because I have moral objections to doing certain things.

    Now comes the hard part, finding a new partner who is just as open and willing, and who can share that emotional/physical bond that will allow me to continue to be free of those inhibitions.
     
  2. pigeon

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  3. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :cool: I'm happy for you for being soo unihibited. :coold:


    I first got into the freaky at about 15. At about 13 i was already fantasizing about being made a slave to some deliciously powerful man.
    At 16 I got to explore that with Tigre and I have never looked back.
     
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    Well when i was born the nurse looked at me and immediately had sex with me...that was the third time i had had sex, so i was off to a pretty freaky start.
     
  5. sagwa1

    sagwa1 New Member

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    Thanks!

    Its kinda weird though...because I have a hard time finding guys who can handle it :wtc:

    Either they are scared to death...or they think I'm a super slut, just because I know what I like and usually how to get it. (not true...I've only been with 4 guys and 1 female) I'm 30 by the way.
     
  6. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    it can be difficult explaining it to those not already in the scene. I say don't state it right off the bat, but slowlyitroduce the vanilla noobie to the darkside.... maybe they'll like it and maybe they won't. :dunno:
     
  7. JunTao

    JunTao Wheel kick to YO FACE! OT Supporter

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    Your story was pretty hot. I like hearing how people meet and where they turn out. How did you make the transition from you working there and him soliciting, to dating / meeting in the hotel?

    I'm sorry it didn't seem to work out in the end, but at least you do have those hot stories and memories. I have those same "freaky" memories of my ex and her urine fetish.

    She got me into it quite by accident. I guess I was getting a little bored with our sex life. I askes her one day what I didn't know about her sexually. What turned her on that I didn't know about that I wasn't doing. Something new that couple spice things up. She told me she had stumbled across some pee porno on the net. Pissy Galore I think it was called. She wanted to experiment with peeing. So I made it happen, and it lead to some very interesting and messy times in hotel rooms. The lead to more interesting times in her apartment, and out in random places. We would find a dark alley to pee in after a night of drinking and wind up a little messy and wet :eek3:

    But at any rate, now I have those experiences with me, and maybe i'll get to turn someone on to that in the future :o
     
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    unrealii professor of plant biology

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    My story is pretty stupid.

    I was surfing some porn sites 10 years ago. Saw a "Bondage" link and clicked on it...SOLD!:eek5:
     
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    Aries240SS Slow Nissan

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    Banged the ex in a glass elevator downtown one night. The stop button is there for a reason :o
     
  10. bucherfreund

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    On my first date with my current boyfriend. I did things I had never done before/never knew that I wanted to do. And it's weird, because I thought we would run out of stuff to do but we haven't and it's been three years.
    I had to *introduce* all the other boys before that.
    So yeah, he is def. a keeper :love:
     
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    Being bored at home, looking at porn, meeting freaky chicks, and just the usual lead to it

    i got 586 on that test above
     
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    789 on the test here...

    As for the introduction, everything was pretty much mainstream until I met my ex-fiance. She's the one that really got me into things, and the reason I keep going further with things. Of all the "firsts" I have, she's about 90% of them. We broke up about 5 months ago over a bullshit fight (but it just wasn't working anyway, neither of us could trust the other), but we still talk daily, and we still play around every once in a while, just to keep things interesting...as she puts it "sex is great and all, but once in a while, you just need really GREAT sex."
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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  16. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Congratulations!
    Your Hotlanta Kink Test score was 825!

    Here is the chart so that you can see how you are rated:

    100 or less You need to lighten up and live a little!
    101 to 200 You have an average sex life in need of kink.
    201 to 300 You have sweet hints of a kinky nature.
    301 to 400 You have kinky playful tendencies.
    401 to 500 You are definitely a kinky player.
    501 to 600 You are kinkier than most!
    601 to 700 You are a major league kinkster!
    701 to 800 You live and breath kinky!!
    801 to 900 Wow! You're too kinky for most!!!
    901 or more SUPER FREAK ALERT! You da BOMB!
     
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    Ha!

    I got the one below you, 701-800.

    I never really new the true definition of "Kinky"
    But hey..I "Live and breath kinky"

    There were quite a few questions on Beastiality...
    I mean, I love Clerks II but...Unless I was ordered to (by him<3) I don't think I'd get into that stuff.

    I'm sure if he reads this..I'll be in big trouble.

    But I'll keep you posted...:naughty:
     
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    Hmm...... 579. Not bad for an older woman:rofl:
     
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    vintage82 we fuck you

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    Wow...and I only got 781.....:bowdown: to you
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :dunno: I just have done a fair amount of things on that list. :dunno: there are a lot freakier thigns that they didn't mention... that test is pretty one dimensional.
     
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    That has to be the highest score I've seen..... sadly i am not that freaky at all my score .... a 219 honest:wtc:
     
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