I have a lesbian friend who wants to experience being with a man. She's about 25 and has never been with one and I guess I'm the lucky guy who gets to do the deed. I'm not really attracted to her though and was just joking around about it, but I figured why not? Anyway, what can I do to make it a good experience for her? Should I be gentle or should I be rough? I read in Maxim that when "turning" a lesbian you shouldn't even let her see your penis until you're fucking her. Will she want me to go down on her and do everything a girl does?