How to tell if she likes me ?

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  1. MrMagic

    MrMagic New Member

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    Well long story short , New girl just started working where i work she it often seems like shes flirting however she does have a boyfriend. My question is what are some ideas of question or perhaps even tricks to finding this out without bluntly asking "Hey do you have a thing for me?" doing that could mean my job where I work so i can't. And she does have a boyfriend and I am not one to cause problems like that.
     
  2. shaysomething

    shaysomething Hmmmmmmm.

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    Seems like she's flirting; you sure she's not being friendly?
    What's she doing, exactly?
     
  3. Sonic_Fan

    Sonic_Fan 恐ろしい Member

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    I personally think she's being friendly with you. However, if you really want to know, check out how she acts around with other people other than yourself and compare her behavior. If there's a drastic change, there's a chance she might be interested in you.
     
  4. Arkaybee

    Arkaybee New Member

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    Do you have IM or email at work? I would start chatting with her over that medium and see how much flirting she does
     
  5. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    Many many many people (myself included) tend to flirt a little more (whether they know it or not) when they are taken, because it is safe, and they know it will lead nowhere.

    Have fun with it, flirt back, but don't expect/hope for anything to actually come from it.
     
  6. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    bad idea if it goes anywhere, don't want to leave a papertrail for HR
     
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    Arkaybee New Member

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    I guess it depends on the company. PM's at my work aren't monitored and they only look at your email if they have a reason.
     
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    if she has a bf, you shouldnt be worried about if she likes you.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :uh:

    Not only do you work with her, but she has a bf? Find your own single girl. You're only interested most likely because:
    1. You can't have her
    2. She fell into your lap technically because she started working with you

    Let me guess, you don't really ever put any of your own effort into finding women? Don't waste your time trying to find out if she likes you. Read these threads while you're at it and smack some sense into yourself.

    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3809650
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3833030
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3322184
     
  10. Vysion

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    People flirt all the time even when they have bf's or gf's. Some people's personalities are very flirty. Just befriend her but don't get closer with her until you don't work together. Unless you work as a server in a restaurant... that's about the only job and place I'd say where it could be acceptable to date a co-worker. But that's because restaurant staff has a high turn-over rate.
     
  11. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    Close thread.... She is taken and works with you... this can only lead to fail
     
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    why is this even a thread since you wrote her off in your own post?? (has a bf/you don't cause trouble like that) Exactly what advice are you looking for? Someone to tell you to go for her regardless so you can pursue her and not feel guilty about it?
     
  13. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    proceed only if you have no problems changing jobs
     
  14. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    and in 2 years if she has an issue, she can get you in a shitload of trouble. Keep it off of the network.
     
  15. chica&buddies

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    why waste so much time on her?
     
  16. demosnat

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    :rofl: the op's post reminds me of my grandfather.
    "you know how you catch an uncatchable rabbit?"
    "no grandpa, how"
    "put pepper on'er tale, when it sneezes, grab it!" :cracksupathisownjoke:
     

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