how to tell if a girl is interested?

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  1. jag6984

    jag6984 New Member

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    Well, I met this chick at work awhile back and we just hit it off from the get go. We have damn near identical interests and can strike up a conversation on just about anything. She's been saying we should go out and do something (sushi, bars, etc...) but for unforseen reasons we haven't been able to do anything until today. We went for lunch and it was all good, and most likely we will go out this weekend. Now, she hasn't brought up whether she has a boyfriend, but by the sounds of it she doesn't.

    I'm just wondering what are some of the definate tell tale signs that she wants a relationship/hook up/whatever, or just be friends? I'm really happy with either because she's just so damn cool, but if she wants something more :naughty:, I should probably step up my game a little.
     
  2. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    dont think about all this...that's gunna ruin things...take things as they come and stop worrying, you said you guys already have fun together, so it's obviously good so far.
     
  3. jag6984

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    hmm...good point
     
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    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    yeah. a relaxed attitude like that "doing nothing" will leave you in the friend zone though. If you're decent friends what's to stop you from going "so are you interested in anything more?" and then you'll find out if she wants to date, or be a fuckbuddy, or neither.

    Doesn't hurt to ask, and if she flips out then her immaturity is her problem, not yours.
     
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    if she is very touchy feely with you then you are in
     
  6. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    true that but she doesn't even have to be all touchy feely, body language alone is key
     
  7. spornf

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    Don't think about, plan, or analyzethe situation between you and the chick. Also, don't expect anything to happen. If you do any of these things you'll fuck it up everytime. You should just let things happen.
    :cool:
     
  8. teo

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    how close are your job roles at work? the closer the roles, the harder it is to keep work and relationship separate. just keep in mind that you both have to be incredibly mature and strong-willed to be civil if you make a go of it and things don't work out.
     
  9. C32

    C32 *The M3 Executioner*

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    If she says she wants to go back to your place, she's interested.
     
  10. BlMMERGUY

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    there are some tells... if a girl plays with her hair in your direction, if they cross their top leg towards you... there are subconcious tells but thats to say they want attention more so than anything else. if she acts shy sometimes, she tends to look at your face when you talk, she engages in conversation and seems interested in what you say, is reluctant to hang out with her friends, if you work with her does she stick around in the room when she has nothing to do there, instigate jokes... my personal tells. advice: be your friendly self to her and everyone else at work. dont think about how you like her while youre with her or you will fail. think if future failure happens its just the dirt off your shoulders and believe it
     
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    sexual innuendo's, with all my ex-gf's there were just always those obvious sexual jokings that tipped me off. /shrug
     

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