Discussion in 'On Topic' started by monoclide, Jul 5, 2007.
If she can't handle it or thinks less of you, find someone else. you deserve better.
Pretty much. The longer you delay telling her, the more you'll hurt both of you.
Get her drunk...then tell her. Perhaps it'll help soften the blow.
If she can't handle it, it's best to move on unless you think you can give up the bi and just be hetro.
I hate to be a smart ass, but I'd use words. There is really no other better way. It is also better for you to learn to face your fears sooner or later, so I'm not gonna tell you how to cheat yourself either. Just do the dirty and charge foreword into the unknown.
draw pictures of you blowing a guy
If she can't handle all of who you are, then she's not worth it. You can either assume she's going to react negatively to it and dump her without telling her, or take a shot and tell her, and if she does react negatively, dump her.
She is going to dump you when you tell her.
WTF is it with homos always wanting to come out and admit to their perverted sexual preferences of inserting objects in there ass? I don't know why you and others feel obligated to "come out", but I suggest you "stay in."
Wow, I see you are mature... I bet you're the biggest homo on this board.
If I preferred to masturbate with a Kermit the frog puppet, I wouldn't feel obligated to tell the world about it. You never hear people with unusual sexual habits feeling like they need to announce that pervsion, it's only homosexuals, and quite frankly I don't understand it. That doesn't make me immature, and it doesn't make me a homo.
being homosexual isn't an "unusual sexual habit"
Unless your a homo
and deal with your sexuality issues on your own time.
Prove otherwise. And don't say "well animals do it", that's demeaning the intelligence of homosexuals.
To the poster - why continue being friends with her if she can't accept the path you've chosen in life? Get friends that you can identify with. I don't see how you can possibly maintain the friendship with such conflicts in beliefs.
Oops read that as friend instead of girlfriend.
Do you see yourself being attracted to men for your entire life? If so, how could you spend the rest of your life with her when she clearly is against that? Life is short. Move on and find someone that will accept you for who you are.