How to talk dirty???

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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    My hook up buddy likes "dirty" talk. Sex & dirt ...? :dunno:

    Anyways, I can describe to some extent what I want to do to her, but ... it interrupts the flow. I don't know. It just seems completely unnatural. I also don't get the point I guess. Obviously the point is that she likes it, but I don't understand why she likes it, or what she likes about it. One way to put how I feel about dirty talk is that it feels staged.

    Language is so awkward. "I am going to kiss your pussy." I'm not a voice actor, you know? Even writing it down I feel like I might as well be writing an essay.

    "I am presently going to initiate contact with your vulva using the oral area of my visage." Oohh, hot. :ugh:

    I could express the same thing by kissing around her inner thighs and teasing her physically.

    Girls, what did guys say to you who talked dirty that you liked? Guys, what do you suggest?

    (sorry to repost. my previous one i deleted by accident)
     
  2. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Maybe she likes being talked down on. Maybe try stuff like 'you like that you little xxxxx', rather than commenting on what you're doing precisely?

    Again FS may be a good place to look for more answers on this topic.

    A lot of porn has dirty talk, though like you it's not really my thing, but you may want to get some 'tips' from that.
     
  3. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I also feel weird talking dirty in the bedroom. It just seems to take the magic away. And maybe it was because the girls that tried talking to me sucked. But they seem rather stupid while talking dirty.
     
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    DJ Quik Vancouver 07/08 stanley cup champs!

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    tell her what your going to do, then do it...

    like "i'm gonna rub my cock up and down your pussy until you scream my name and beg for my cock inside you"

    then do it.

    girls love dirty talking...... especially if you whisper right in there ear.
     
  5. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    hmm ... I feel like she definitely wasn't talking about dominant dirty talk, but maybe not. i'll check. also thanks for the tip i'm gonna repost to FS.
     
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    "YOUS A NAST BITCH AINTCHA?!?!"
    "AWWW NGA AWWW"

    try these lines...

    lc
     
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    i kinda like it bc it lets me know how attractive i am/how much fun he is having. verbal reaffirmation, particularly during oral is a plus.

    personally i dont say much in the dirty dep. mostly a few single words/moans and perhaps a 'fuck me harder' or 'i want you in my ass' or whatnot.

    as for what you should do...just speak your mind. if you want to fuck her brains out tell her that. if you want her to deepthrought, tell her to take it all (bitch)...you like it dont you...suck me harder/faster/slower/deeper/ect.

    meh, i suck at sex.
     
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    :bowdown: Exactly..
     
  9. lauren

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    yeah, i kinda like the more degrading talk. bitch whore slut.... :dunno: dont tell her what you want to do, tell her what to do... verbal comands
     
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    Oh ya... we're screwin!
     
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    "I'm gonna fart in yo mouth, I'm gonna shit on your chest"
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Well actually, I'm quite vocal when she's going down on me or just in general when something feels good, I don't just silently feel the pleasure, I do let her know and I can do it naturally.

    On the other hand, the whole "you're so hot" "this part of you" "that part of you" does feel a little dry to me and also the worship might be kind of a turn off.
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Of course of course of course I'm not saying I'm a tightlipped lover. Simply that while it is natural to moan and shout positive exclamations like "yeah, oh, yeah," etc., it's a step away from natural to be striking up a conversation about the very thing you are doing at that moment.

    Compliments (true ones) I can see that too I suppose as an extension of a natural thought.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Yeah see that's the sort of thing I'm talking about. Maybe I'm uptight still or maybe speaking for me is too conscious and purposeful, but I am pretty sure I couldn't just speak without forethought like that. Especially narrating in that way. That's the sort of thing I have trouble getting.
     
  15. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: That was the funniest line ever! I love that movie!

    I'm not one that really likes to be called names. So I agree not all girls like that. I would ask her (when you guys aren't messing around) before you start doing that. You don't want to offend her. I would be offended if a guy called me a bitch or whore at any point and time. Does not turn me on at all.

    It's not necessarily talking about what you are going to do to her. Its more about what you want to do to her or asking her what she wants. Build it up. Don't just dive right in. Kiss her, talk to her. Tell her how horny she makes you. I kinda like to tease for a little bit first and make them work for it. I like hearing them tell me what they want, what they want to feel and do to me...how bad they want it. I reeeeally like hearing them beg. :bigthumb: But I make them wait for it.

    I keep kissing, touching... I bite and scratch too (sometimes a little too hard I think if I get really horny)...breathe on them (hot and cold) lick and then breathe on the wet spots ask them if they like it... but I don't touch or do the things that will get them off and I don't make them think they are going to get it either. Eventually it happens but not till they are really super horny. :rofl:
     
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    Just say whatever you feel like saying. It always feels awkward unless you are with someone you are REALLY comfortable with. Once you get that comfort level you can say just about anything and it will be sexy.
     
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  18. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Heh ok, good to hear a completely different viewpoint. In this case you are talking about very submissive "dirty" talk. I guess my ego would not suffer terribly for doing this with a girl. Still, I'd have trouble staying underneath like that for too long.

    After you let your guy inside you, do you like him to bang the fuck out of you, or do you like to be on top still?
     
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    silent sex
     
  20. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    I like descriptive... just not degrading I guess is the way you could put it. Typing something out here isn't going to have the same effect as it would in person. You really gotta be in the moment and willing to let go of the insecurities. Say what you reeeeally want and say it like you have never meant anything before as much as you have meant that. Not just to say it because thats what you think they want to hear. It makes an insane amount of difference.

    As for how I like it... just depends... I'm very versatile. I really like it rough and loud but you have to really mix it up some otherwise the things that you do like... eventually get boring and at some point you really won't care anymore.

    It's kinda like if you ate your favorite dessert every single night. Eventually you get to the point where you don't like it so much anymore and start wanting something different....
     
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    "o god im gonna cum in you bitch" right as youre fucking at your hardest and about to cum and she cant say "what the fuck" because youre about to blow a load allll in that and she cant do a damn thing about it. its about saying whatever you can to make her want the cum more.
     

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