SRS How to stop being Co dependent

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    MudRacer4x4 New Member

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    How do you learn to stop being co dependent on having a relationship? I want to be content with being alone.
     
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    Well, interestingly enough, that's independent of whether or not you're in a relationship.

    You need to develop your own interests and hobbies. Find things that you like doing and do them.
     
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    I do but I miss laying next to her and having someone around.:wtc:
     
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    well of course, people have a natural desire to be with people

    she won't be the last
     
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    Thats the weird part I feel like I can't get anyone else.
     
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    that's also normal after a breakup. It sucks. Breakups aren't fun for anyone, but, and this is a fact, you will eventually get over her.

    Go out with friends often, invest more time in your work/hobbies
     
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    Handsom3 Our wrongs remain unrectified and our souls won't

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    Just spend enough time single and start hanging out with your friends. I used to spend 5-6 days a week with the ex-girlfriend. Now I spend almost every night out with friends and am having a blast. Growing up I was never big into sports, but hanging out with these guys I've become a huge sports fan. I'm really big into hockey now and that is where I met the girl I'm dating now.
     
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    You won't with that attitude. You need to change right now! rent a hooker
     
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    that would be a bad idea. The hooker would lay him, but then leave him, and he wouldn't even had had the companionship he missed. Meanwhile, he gets a fresh example of a woman leaving him
     
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    bandwagon fan :mamoru:


    I was rooting for Chicago the last series... I really thought you guys could handle Detroit.
     
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    Handsom3 Our wrongs remain unrectified and our souls won't

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    Been a fan since I moved here four years ago, just really got into it big time this year since I had friends to go with me to the games. We got short changed with injuries, but next year should be a good year too.
     
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    injuries suck. If Calgary hadn't been so hindered by injuries, you wouldn't have made it past us, and we'd be in the finals :mamoru:

    hope to see you again next year, it was a good series
     

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