FRK How to spice things up?

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by hotbabe, Oct 25, 2004.

  1. hotbabe

    hotbabe Guest

    I want to liven things up. Any ideas?? role play ideas???
     
  2. xenthyl

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    WEll.. I'd say new positions. Or new things. Another thing I noticed alot of women like is if you get a guy to lick the girls butt and play with their clit. :) *shrugs* It really depends on the couple. Personally I think pictures and the like can be thrilling.
     
  3. hotbabe

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    we've done pictures. don't have a vid camera. haven't done anal or a threesome (those of you that have done this, how did you choose a girl???). haven't done role playing which i would like to get into. i think we've tried about every position in the book. sex is great. just want to keep it that way and i'm just inthe mood to get freaky.
     
  4. xenthyl

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    Well.. Does it have to be another girl? Maybe he might want 2 guys and you? Everyone is diffrent. hehe. if I were you I'd ask him out in the open what he wants to try next. Maybe make a list of stuff you guys come up with and see what you are both willing to adventure into.
     
  5. Raptor13x

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    nothin spices it up like anal :big grin:
     
  6. mrrolf

    mrrolf New Member

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    I asked my good bi friend, she was excited to be #3
     
  7. SimpleMethod

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    Kama Sutra

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    Tantra
     
  8. pezman37

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    When you add another person to the realtionship's sex life, your relationship is effectively over. You (or her) don't care enough about the other person enough to keep it to f***ing just them. Some people don't care if they are with someone and they spend the next 30 years cheating on each other, but that is what this leads to. If you're gonna do it, do it with two people you could never see again and you wouldn't care, but that leads to other problems when f***ing strangers or people you barely know (like from work.) Porn stars who do this kinda stuff wouldn't be porn stars if they weren't profoundly disturbed.
     
  9. FrigginAnT

    FrigginAnT Humanity is like a train wreck....its fun to watch

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    wow someone sounds bitter

    ive had 3somes before and it was nothing but fun

    i know a ton of people that have done it...all but 1 couple...had nothing but FUN

    might wanna take your closed-minded or bitter view to a different section
     
  10. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    I would definitely consider doing a threesome, or even more! My BF and I hooked up with 3 other people (2 girls, 1 guy) and it was awesome! It made us hornier than usual and definitely spiced things up!
     
  11. pezman37

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    Just goes to show how lacking in reality you are, nothing like this has ever remotely happened to me. However a good friend of mine is a sexual addiction specialist, and I am mearly quoting them. If you could read what I had said, I didn't say that no one should have threesomes, just that you shouldn't be doing it in a realtionship. If your sex life with your partner is so sorry you have involve other people then you need to get a new one. There is quite a difference between open minded and delusional.
     
  12. Zee

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    Go too a swing club, and just watch the other couples :naughty:
     
  13. BTA

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    Having a 3some might be fun but chances are it's not going to be healthy for the relationship if you are in one.

    Pretty sure thats all the guy was saying.

    But hey you go ahead and make yourself feel cooler for enjoying 3somes.
     
  14. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    I dont think anyone has threesomes to feel "cooler". I've done it..didnt feel any cooler. Just glad to have had the experience. Its about experimenting and who better to try something with for the first time than someone you care for?
     
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    My wife and I had a threesome while we were still dating. She brought it up one night while we were at a club and a few months later an opportunity presented itself and so we did it. The next day she said that she didn't like it very much and didn't want to do it again. I just said cool and that was the end of it.

    This was five years ago and we have been married for three years now. Every now and then one of us will bring it up and will just laugh about it. We are both very glad that we did it and enjoy all the new experiences that we have shared together.

    Problems come up when the parties involved are not adult about the situation and get jealous or selfish. It is all about respect. If you respect the one that you are with and you both talk about it before hand and know what problems may arise then you should be fine.

     

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