How to proceed.

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  1. korverftw

    korverftw New Member

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    My mothers good friend has a daughter that I think is really nice and good looking. We are also mutually friends with one of my best female friends. Anyway, I met her once when she was at my house with her mom for some reason. I was on the way out so I didn't get to talk to her much.

    So yesterday she added me on Facebook out of nowhere and I'm planning on going for it. My question is since we haven't really hung out, how creepy is it just to ask her for her number online and see if she wants to hang out? She knows I exist so at least step 1 is done.
     
  2. giz

    giz Active Member

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    send her a message saying you should hang out soon. it helps if you have something specific (show, fair, festival, etc.) she added you, she is probably interested.
     
  3. korverftw

    korverftw New Member

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    Cool. Thanks :)
     
  4. Sirian

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    Plan something on facebook over facebook messages or something, then casually ask for her number "in case you need to get ahold of her" or something. Then BAM, you got her number and can start texting and stuff after you hang out and start planning on when you can hang out again.
     
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    saosko OT Supporter

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    I've used my mom as a wingman before in this type of situation before :rofl:
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    "Hey, whats going on? Saw you at my house that day and im sorry I didnt have time to chat, would really like to hang out sometime. What are you doing this weekend?"
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    freckleface expose the raw nerve and get on with our lives...

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    I love this Math! :bigthumb:

    Keep us updated!
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Just keep plain and simple and not needy, you'll be fine :)
     
  11. korverftw

    korverftw New Member

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    It's her birthday today according to Facebook so I'll probably catch her on chat tomorrow evening. Will report back.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Oh man even easier.


    "Figured you'd be busy on your birthday and didnt wanna be a nuisance on such an important day, whatcha doing this weekend?
     
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    where do guys get the idea that men are supposed to sneak up on women? :rofl:

    oh noes... if you just ask her for her number because you want to call her to take her out she might get the wrong idea... oh wait.
     
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    :ugh: wtf guys. grow some balls. You guys really say this stuff?
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    :rofl: NO :bowrofl:
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    I personally would never take scripts from the interweb, its just fun to give them out :rofl:
     
  17. korverftw

    korverftw New Member

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    I can't say anything that pussy sounding, that said, the advice is appreciated.
     
  18. C.W.

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    pretty much
     
  19. peoplescar

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    "I was just wondering if maybe, possibly, you might be interested in going out for a coffee sometime, if its no trouble, i mean only if you want to"
     
  20. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    :rofl: Confidence is key! :hsugh:
     
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    i think his sarcasm went over your head :mamoru:
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    I think my :hsugh: went over yours.
     
  23. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    just stop guys, stop :rofl:
     
  24. peoplescar

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  25. giz

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    that would actually work :rofl:
     

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