I'm not trying to rush in to ANYTHING with anyone, and don't mind taking it slow while I get to know someone. I've been trying to meet new people since me and my ex broke up, but I have a problem. I'm comparing new girls I meet to my ex. Not a HORRIBLE thing, but in the same regard, things that took my ex from average to above average, the opposites are taking new girls from average to BELOW average... Example: I loved the fact that my ex never wore makeup... she didn't have to. Thats something that can easily (sounds stupid, but lets pretend it's a point system...) 'add' points. However, I obviously don't think that wearing makeup deserves NEGATIVE points, but thats kinda where my mind is going. Like, instead of the fact that a new interest wears makeup having really no effect on what I think of her, I find it IS having an effect, simply because I'm comparing her to my ex. Thats just one example. And I think the hard thing is, my ex was easily the most beautiful girl I've ever been with. 5'8", 120lbs, 36C's, 35/25/34 etc... So in my head I think it's going to be hard to be attracted to anything LESS for a while... I guess I'm just rambling, and yes I know we haven't been broken up for a long time. I'm not trying to get in to a relationship, but I'm already dating a few girls casually... I don't really see anything wrong with that. They already know I'm not looking for anything serious for a while... but it just seems like I can't force myself to evaluate them on their own merit... only on a merit set by my ex... If anyone has any tips for my problem, thanks!