For as long as I can remember, my problem has been getting girls, not keeping them. This is a first for me. Id like to say, this is the 2nd girl ive hooked up with that I actually like. (1st one had a boyfriend and still does) cliffs: met a girl in class, we start hanging out, we hang out a bunch over the next 2 weeks, the furthest we get is finger bang she has slept in my bed a few nights. the night after fingerbang she calls me and asks me to go to a mutual friends birthday party. Turns out there is no party after driving around for a few hours she she drops me off at my house and says something along the lines of......'my friend is visiting from norway (she spent 4 months studying there) for 3 weeks and we probably shouldnt hang out, you might get jealous' I am not dating her, I am not her boyfriend, I was hammered. basically I said 'uh huh, ok, yeah sure, whatever." I don't think I was in any position to be jealous. Its likely they were hooking up, I don't care, hes going back to Norway in 3 weeks. I was just mad that we couldn't hang out for 3 weeks because I really liked this girl. (though i did not show it, being mad that is). anyways, a week goes by, we text. I can tell were not going to hang out during these 3 weeks, so I delete her number as I have a habit of drunk dialing/txting ridiculous things when I am drunk.....i didnt want to ruin anything. I figure ill just hit her up on facebook in a few weeks. a few weeks later I facebook her asking if she wants to help me pick some glasses, she msgs me declining, because 'glasses look stupid on my face so she cant help me.' I thought that was MAD skechty so I send her another message on facebook (i dont have her number) it says I sent this 5 days ago, I see her on facebook sometimes, no response. This is really frustrating, because Id like some closure. I really like this girl, but I am afraid to send another message because I dont want to sound creepy/etc, then agian, i dont even know what my next message, if i were to send one, would say Thanks.