how to move up with my gf?

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  1. g230sport

    g230sport New Member

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    we have been dating for 6 months and well, all weve done is really made out...i havent touched anything and she hasnt either. were virgins. what do i do, i dont want to freak her out or anything but i want to go further...
     
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    make a move. rub her through her jeans, take it from there
     
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    but like, i dont want to ruin what we have trying to get laid...i dont want to rush things either. god im a noob.
     
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    just rub a little, see how she reciprocates.
    if she backs off, you back off.
    if she moves in, go for it!
    :naughty:
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Aww @ "I don't want to ruin what you have." I'm curious to hear how old you are....but if you are ready then you just need to try and make a move. If she freaks out then you talk about it. If not then you are golden :)
     
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    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    1. Kiss for 8mins
    2. Move towards the neck and alternate between kissing and necking. Target ears as well. 10mins.
    3. Touch breasts over shirt. 5mins
    4. Slide hand under shirt. Feel breasts. Rub nipples. 10mins.
    5. Lift her shirt up to expose her breasts. Kiss nipples, Lick, play with them using your fingers, tongue.

    Now if she resists after the first move or second move then stop and go walk into a wall.
    btw, those are just estimated minutes, its really give or take and depending on how the flow is going.
     
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    im going to get shit for it, but im a junior in highschool...and in love for the first time and yeah, i dont want to ruin it by trying to get laid...
     
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    The thing is if your relationship has any strength to it she will communicate if there is a problem. Just remember move slowly when making this jump it will surprise her at first. Start off by kissing then go for her hot spots (back of neck, side of neck, ear, shoulder blade just whatever turns her on). After you got her going then head for the beasticles/stomach. But if you are both virgins and never had done anything like this in the past I would wait a while going from the breasts to vag. When I was in high school I had the same problem so when I decided to go for the gold I went for the Silver the week before (boob) then went for the gold(take a guess) the next week. I remember her face though.:o As soon as I went down there (hands) she was like :eek3:. O yea and btw chances are your high school relationship will not last. Not want to be rude but I remember many couples I thought would never separate but in the end when they went off to college they broke up..... The only ones that stayed together were the ones who did not go to college and are doing nothing in life.

    That all being said good luck sport!
     
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    girls like to enjoy themselves physically too. Dont feel guilty just try to go further and pay attention. If she seems comfortable, proceed. If not back off.
     
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    well, i didnt say this relationship was going to last forever, but id like to stay together as long as possible...but well see what happens, ill keep you guys posted as i proceed...if that happens :o
     
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    stuff should happen this summer. having pool and hot tub in my backyard ftmfw, along with a trampoline, which she loves...:big grin:
     
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    Hahaha, I can see it now:

    *kissing, making out, more kissing* *BEEP*
    Her: What was that?
    Him: Oh nothing.
    *Necking, kissing, making out, grope, necking, more kissing* *BEEP*
    Her: Really what WAS that?

    LOL
     
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    The 1st time someone touched my bare breast.... is one of my sexiest memories.

    Just gentle and as a few other people said pay attention to how she responds. If she backs away from you and then don't push it, but if she growns or kisses you harder then you know she likes it :naughty:
     
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    lol another old thread bumped what gives carpet?
     
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    I hadn't visted this site for about a week, besides the last post before mine was only 2 days previous, well technically 3, but it was still yesterday to me when I posted.

    :dunno:
     
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    I sorry I didn't notice the TS last post date :doh:
     
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    Just take it slow. Dont go straight for the vag, make sure she's comfortable with you touching her chest first. If she's not comfortable with that, there's no way she'll be comfortable with your hand down her pants.

    When you're kissing her, stroke her cheek, then slowly move it down, around her neck, and keep going. If she doesnt balk, continue. Once you're up her shirt, stay there. Dont try to go south in the same day. Give her some time to adjust to being touched.

    Once you feel the time is right (some say a week, my gf and I waited about a month and a half) start to take your motions southward, stroking her stomach, playing with her belly button (if it doesnt tickle her). When you actually move south, do it slowly. I inched in, took about a half hour just trying to make sure if she was okay with it. Once I got further down without protest, the green light was on, and thats about it.

    BTW, we were also both virgins, juniors in hs, I had gone that far before but she hadnt.

    Just be chill about it. Don't stick your hand down her pants without paying attention elsewhere. Oh, and keep kissing her at all times. Nape of the neck especially.
     
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    Yeah, taking it slow = for the win.

    Don't be making out and then BAM! handful of chest.

    Slowly move it there. She'll notice where you're trying to go, she's not stupid. If she doesn't mind, she'll let you keep your hand there, if she does, she'll either pull back and tell you to back off or she'll move your hand away from her.

    And you never know, I was in that situation with my junior year girlfriend, and she eventually turned out the be a totaly nymph.
     
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    thanks for the help. i just dont know what to do in a situation like this. never been here before... gotta start somewhere i guess :)
     
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    holy crap 6 months and no sexors?
     
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    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    1. get confident/take control
    2. communicate - find out what she's comfortable with doing.
    3. if it seems at all like she's ready to do anything past making out then YOU make a move, dont wait for her to.

    go for the bra, try to get to the mountains ;)
     
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    :dunno: thats a long time.
     
  25. JT07

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    i dont think so...not for 2 virgins
     

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