LGBT How to know if you're gay, vs bi

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by whoarnti, Mar 23, 2004.

  1. whoarnti

    whoarnti Guest

    Ok I have never thought about being gay and now I am 22 and have watched 2 seasons of QAF. Could it be? I have always been attracted to women but only in lovelike 5x but never to a man. After watching QAF though I admire the male body. Is it possible I am gay an it took me this long to realize it or maybe even bi. Maybe its just i am entirely comfortable with both sexualities. Any ideas?
     
  2. 5secstrtcar

    5secstrtcar Spot you 10, give you the move and still hand you

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    Yep you are gay.
     
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    You arent gay.
     
  4. RedGoober4Life

    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    Bi...maybe? Don't know? I really can't give great advice because well, I never went through that.
     
  5. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Trust that if you were gay, you would have known you were gay years ago. Even if you tried to suppress it, you would have some inkling of the feelings. With the limited information that you have given, I would say that maybe you are just aware of what's attractive and what isn't. You have a certain level of appreciation for the male body, and that's it. As NOVAJock & Sam Gamgee recently asked another OTers with questions, who do you think about when you masturbate?? There's your answer.

    Check out this other thread, Have a few questions... , and I hope that it helps...
     
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    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    you're curious about being curious :mamoru:
     
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    b20civic skateboarding is not a crime

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    you could be bi
     
  8. NOVAJock

    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    It's hard to say. As previously stated, who or what type of situations do you think about when you jerk off? Have you seen gay porn before and if so, what did you feel?

    You could be just naturally open and accepting, inquisitive, truly bi, truly straight, or truly gay. My only suggestion to you is, explore your sexuality wherever it may lead you and embrace that which you discover no matter what it may be.
     
  9. MobileSuit

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    Listen, I'm going through the same thing. I have a bf. I love sex but I check girls out all the time. Maybe I am just open minded but.... I sort of had a crush on a girl my Sr. year Maybe its just cuz we were bestfriends and I knew she was Bi.... but maybe not. I wonder all the time. But the way I see it, is we are just open minded people.
     
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  10. Taylor

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    Just food for thought, you can have homosexual attractions or even experiences without being gay. I've had some interesting "experiences" with some guys who I KNOW are not gay.
     
  11. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Me too, but I always feel bad about those after it happens...
     
  12. Taylor

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    The times it happened to me were before I was comfortable with my own sexuality... so it wasn't quite the same as when you were taking advantage of those straight boys ;)
     
  13. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I WASN'T TAKING ADVANTAGE OF ANYONE!!! EVEN when 'that thing' happened at work, he came on to me...and I had no way of knowing his age...
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    oh do tell! :big grin:
     
  15. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    LOL....am I really allowed to???
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    sure, go for it! :)
     
  17. Taylor

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    By the way, I was questioning if I was bi at first (apparently a lot of people do as an interim step) and had a girlfriend for a while, until I realized that I liked her company but even though she was good looking and a nymphomaniac, I had zero desire to do anything even remotely sexual with her. That pretty much cleared it all up in my mind :o
     
  18. whoarnti

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    Well I got to thinking and yeah, its all women, like someone said, I think I have just learned to appriciate a good body and certain styles.

    I have now seen all of the QAF for first 3 seasons and I guess I am just entirely comfortable with my sexuality as well as the homosexual one. After watching all 3 seasons I am pretty sure there isnt anything I couldnt watch in that catagory.
     
  19. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    *NWS*, unless I'm your boss...

    Well....

    Okay, so I’m Marketing Director at a certain company that caters to VA and the Washington Metropolitan Area… I’m pretty good at what I do, so although I’m only 22, I have a pretty huge job with a lot of responsibilities. Also, I have a staff under me, and the youngest of which is 25.

    And then there was this intern, only he wasn’t introduced to me as an intern, but as my assistant for 2 weeks, and I didn’t make the connection. He was the son of the owners sister by marriage (or something crazy), and although they didn’t really seem close like family, they are obviously close enough to just get a job paying $950 a week as my assistant. Anyway, he had a nice body…really nice.

    He walked in wearing this really tight cranberry golf shirt, tan slacks, and matching cranberry shoes (those shoes were HOT too). Anyway, the owner and I are pretty close (he calls me his replacement queer for his college room mate, who he has fallen out of touch with…), and so he just walked in and introduced me to the hot guy, named Ronald.

    “I’ll leave Ronald in your capable hands,” he stated, before turning and leaving, busy as ever…

    But because I’m busy as ever, I put Ronald to task, getting my coffee, sorting through this and that, and calling carriers to deliver hard copies of contracts. Because Ronald was doing so much for me, his being my assistant and all, he was in and out of my office so much that I stopped noticing him.

    My friends know me as a bit of a sexual advisor. And on this day, one friend (we’ll call her Yevette) was IMing me on AIM, and she was talking about giving head, this technique, that technique, and she made a comment about my giving the best head in the area…hehe. I LOLed, and responded in a very slutty manner, saying ‘all you gotta do is ask!’. Now, I was joking, but then…

    “Well, I’m asking,” came a husky reply from over my shoulder.

    I spun around, to find Ronald looking at me, obviously done reading from over my shoulder, and not-so-early morning glory protruding defiantly from his slacks. My mouth fell open, in shock.

    “So, it’s a yes then” he asked commenting on my open mouth.

    Quickly snapping it shut, I stared at this striking man in front of me, then turned in my chair, and typed to my friend, ‘sorry, but I have to go for a while. I have to give some quick head.’ She LOLed. His eye bugged open at my openness. I got up, closed the door, and hit the DND button on my phone.

    He said that he had never done anything with a guy, and that he wasn’t gay, but reading about my methods intrigued him, and he wanted to know if the old saying was right, that only a gay could know what a guy wants…

    I always keep condoms in my desk and bag, so I grabbed the closets set, druex non-lubbed and Magnum non-lubbed (which I used, depended on his size). He tooke the durex from me, and opened it.he unzipped, and tried to turn to put on the condom.

    “Uhh, it’s gonna be I my mouth in a moment, AAAND I have one, so I think I can handle seeing it”

    He turned to face me, and struggled trying to put the durex. Uhh, it was like trying to force a size 6 pump on a 8W foot. But he stuffed it in, and I made the comment, ‘for future reference, you need to always grab the magnums’ and he smiled.

    I started, and quickly unbuckled his belt, to dropped his trou to get a good lick at his balls (and look at this entire package). I wafted in his aroma, and slapped his naked bottom on my desk, spreading and lifting his legs while doing so, allowing them to rest comfortably on my shoulders.

    I feasted for what seemed 30 minutes before he had a massive orgasm, while deep-throating him. A quick glance at the computer clock, revealed that I had made him come in nearly 5 minutes. I pulled off of him, got up, removed his condom, tied the end, and tossed it in the shredded trash. I went back to my desk, and typed “All done” into the AIM window.

    Yevette and I joked about my power head for a few minutes, him still in the room on the other side of my desk (I have a U shaped desk), no doubt looking over my shoulder. He and the owner walked in an hour later, asking me if wanted to catch lunch with them, but I declined saying that I had already eaten. Ronald smiled.

    Later in the day, Ronald came into my office, and said, “I wanted to try the magnum now, if you wanted something more to eat?” I smiled, he smiled, and he closed the door.

    He lasted a lil longer this time, and over the next 2 weeks I gave him the most massive orgasms he claimed to have ever had. Although there had been clues (like my taking him home because he didn’t have a car, his not lasting long sexually, and his ignorance to condoms), it came as a shock to me to learn that he was 17 years old, turning 18 the following month. But by this time, I had been riding this boi to ecstasy nearly every other day (he said he had no idea the positions that guys can have with on another).

    I felt sooooo bad when I found out. :wtc:
     
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  20. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Taylor, does the repression dance work as well the second time on the same event, when it is jarred back into your memory, having now read about it after you already repressed it??
     
  21. Taylor

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    la la la la... what? :)
     
  22. CoCo

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    FIXED :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
     
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    Coco,

    After reading the whole story, I don't know if I should laugh or jerk off. LOL
     
  25. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I glanced up and saw “waxing taint” and immediately scrolled up, thinking OMG, I channeled fraud...hehe
     

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