I find my loss of attention by woman comes quickly after i meet them. I etiher end up getting cheated on or just played with. I realized i cant be to nice, my normal self because most girls will end up taking advantage of you and they want a challenge. But i still cant figure out why i cant hold a womans intrest. I think im kinda attractive and im able to sometimes use this to my advantage, but looks are not very important to most woman after they start to get to know you. After the intial contact/ date i always end up alone still.