How to keep a disagreement from becoming an agreement

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Limited Edition, Apr 22, 2007.

  1. Limited Edition

    Limited Edition New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 26, 2005
    Messages:
    469
    Likes Received:
    0
    How to keep a disagreement from becoming an argument

    Here's an interesting quote from the book "How to win friends & influence people" by Dale Carnegie.






     
    Last edited: Apr 26, 2007
  2. Capt. Hammer

    Capt. Hammer PM me for rates on express consent. OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jun 14, 2003
    Messages:
    64,465
    Likes Received:
    690
    I've read that book, very interesting :coold:

    However, why did you make this thread in the Vag
     
  3. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2006
    Messages:
    4,994
    Likes Received:
    0
    Great blurb.
     
  4. yesitisyellow

    yesitisyellow New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 24, 2004
    Messages:
    1,285
    Likes Received:
    0
    it's a good book
     
  5. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

    Joined:
    Jun 14, 2003
    Messages:
    18,807
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Ontario
    I have that book on my shelf, it's definitely a good read - Has some useful things in it to learn and apply to life
     
  6. lauren

    lauren Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2005
    Messages:
    38,880
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Palo Alto, CA
    12 hours too late :wtc:
     
  7. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jun 23, 2006
    Messages:
    65,506
    Likes Received:
    1
    That's how you keep them from becoming arguments.
     
  8. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

    Joined:
    Jun 19, 2005
    Messages:
    7,065
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    SoCal
    Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don't build higher barriers of misunderstanding.

    had a BIG problem with that before --great exerpt :bigthumb:
     

Share This Page