I started working a new job about 2 months ago in an office where another girl (Jane) and I are the only people under the age of 40. I am 20 and Jane is 23, so naturally we became friends pretty soon. During my first couple of weeks I heard her talk about her fiance, Glenn, who she's been with for about 5 years. I also told her of my boyfriend of 8 months, you know... girl talk. Well a few weeks into working, Glenn came in to pick Jane up from work and I got to meet him. I thought it was sort of weird that within like 12 hours he friended me on myspace and left me a message about one of my pictures being "very nice". But I brushed it off. Over the last few weeks he's been saying things like "Tell Ashley I said she's hott" to Jane while they're on the phone and Jane just relays the message casually. A few days ago while my boyfriend was out of town Jane and Glenn asked if I wanted to go out and do something one night. I already had plans to go to a bar w/ a bunch of friends so I invited them to that. Once we got there Glenn asked if they could stay the night at my place since they wanted to drink and I live just a couple of blocks away. I said sure they could crash in my guestroom on the futon. Once we got back to my house, Glenn was acting really really drunk/silly and extra flirtatious. At one point he grabbed me around my waste and pulled me down onto my couch. I popped right back up and went to my bedroom and he followed me and layed down across my bed, refusing to get up. Much to my shock, Jane just stayed back in the guest room and let all of this happen as it unfolded. Finally, the only way I could get him to leave my bed was to grab a pillow and lay down on the couch myself in the living room. A couple minutes later he got up and went into the guest room with Jane. I went back to my room, closed and locked the door. I overheard him say "aww, she locked the door on me." In the morning when I got up, Glenn had thrown up in my trashcan all night and Jane was occupying my toilet to do the same (they aren't very big drinkers I take it). There was also some puke on my guest room pillow cases. It was obvious that they'd both had way too much to drink, so I thought maybe that was the excuse for his behavior and the reason Jane didn't intervene. Then yesterday he came to work to pick her up from work and on his way out he said "hey check your myspace". I went on there and checked when I got home and had a message from him saying "Yummm Yummm, you looked hott today... ;-)" I feel totally awkward about the situation now. I have a boyfriend and I'm in no way interested in either Jane or Glenn. Not in a 3some or any other type of sexual arrangement. Neither of them are very attractive and it's just not something that I'd want to do with a coworker in the first place. The other night alone made me decide I didn't ever want to go out with them again, and now it's even worse because I feel like he's just not getting it! What do you guys suggest I say/do to get it through to him that I'm not down for whatever it is he's got planned? Cliffs: Coworkers boyfriend keeps hitting on me/drunkenly tried to get with me... how do I tell him to back off?