How to get over an Ex-girlfriend

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  1. SleepnZJ

    SleepnZJ That's not my ring, that's my watch

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    Well I did post the probelms I have had with my now Ex-girlfriend. She is taking her time to think thigs out and I do hope we get back togeather. I was just woundering what can do to keep my mind off things for a while till she works thing out or she and I decided not to get back togeather. I have a gut feelin that we will not, but I am not going to be looking for another woman for some time. I have been working on my cars all day long. But as much fun as turning wrenches is what are some other things I can do to help me recover more easily?

    Chuck B
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  2. Yep

    Yep Knick knack paddy whack, give the old dog a bone

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    Busy busy busy... ya gotta stay busy, really busy. Cause when you aren't busy your mind starts to wander onto other subjects.
     
  3. Guest

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    Yeah, just get with your friends and stay busy. thats about all you can do.
     
  4. this is funny, cuz right now i'm talking to a friend about the same exact thing, and i told him the same things, stay busy, flirt, dont let urself think about it...all i got
     
  5. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    finding something, or even better...someone, else to occupy your time is the best way....
     
  6. krnbk2

    krnbk2 lurkin' it up

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    yup. if you stay busy long enough things will start to settle down. just try not to think about it as hard as that might seem
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  7. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    thats soooooooooo not possible for me :sad2:
    i can't possibly not think about stuff, & i'm VERY easily consumed...
    i hate when it affects other aspects of my life. like skipping class because i totally can't concentrate because of something going on with a girl. or messing up at work. crap like that :down:
     
  8. inline4

    inline4 turn that frown upside down

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    SLEEP WITH HER FRIEND!
     
  9. VANOS

    VANOS .

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    uhh.. yeah, get a new one..

    get over it, fool.
     
  10. defrag

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    slash friend, make that MOM!
     
  11. dylix

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    slash mom, make that her SISTER! :bigthumb:
     
  12. Untouchable1

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    Good luck. I'm in the same position as you, except she is spending her time "thinking" by going to every party she can, so I'm just not going to talk to her or anything.

    I would agree with everyone else...stay busy. I've been doing much better in school and I have started working out again, which not only reduces stress, it also allows you to get into shape for summer and talk to girls at the gym.
     
  13. krnbk2

    krnbk2 lurkin' it up

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    i have the same problem. when my mind starts going I end up dwelling on things. I mean i couldnt be happier now with the relationship i am in but before this I used to dwell a lot.
     
  14. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    http://forums.off-topic.net/showthread.php?threadid=206556
     
  15. Beer and lots of it :beer:
     
  16. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :wavey: ;) i agree with ya, mike... only i think about anything and everything. there's something that reminds me of everyone throughout the day... whether it be songs, movies, phrases, experiences. i think about everyone, not only past beaus. it makes me sad because then i get to thinking whether i'm thought about by that person as much as i think about them :sad2: and i know i'm not...:(
     
  17. -=Likwid=-

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    i'm usually a hardcore moper when it comes to breakups... so keeping busy isn't exactly the best solution for me.

    i found that if you touch up on an old hobby or find something new that you really like (for me it was a crotchrocket) i'm happy all over again. and given the group i ride with now, finding a new woman shouldn't be too hard ;)
     
  18. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    damnit i thought you said 'hardcore mopar' when i looked real quick.

    i was gonna give you a :eek: :cool: :bigthumb:

    but instead you get a :sad:


    :p
     
  19. -=Likwid=-

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    awww gee.... [/bashful]

    [sad]

    btw wtf is a 'mopar'?
     
  20. PrettyLush5

    PrettyLush5 red sky at night

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    time...and lots of it
     
  21. inline4

    inline4 turn that frown upside down

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    slash sister... say hi to prettylush :big grin:

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  22. epitaph

    epitaph Exorcizamus te, omnis immundus spiritus.

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    I usually (right now actually by coincidence) focus on all the shitty things she's ever done. In the case right now, it's not too hard because she decided she liked another guy and turned into a total psycho-bitch on me. :mad: Easy to get over that. But uhh..... yeah I like to focus on bad parts and try to get pissed off at her, and well that's what helps me to say there are better fish in the sea. (pardon the cliche)
     
  23. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    do a search for 'mopar' & see what you get ;)
     
  24. mike

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    Keys rules to get over your girlfriend...

    1. Chill with all your guy friends. (they'll talk shit, it's funny)
    2. DO NOT listen to the radio. (all songs are fucking depressing )
    3. Get laid.

    =D
     
  25. soooo tru, sucks for a chick tho, if she hangs out with her friends, all they'll talk about is their bf's grrr stupid bishes...
     

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