How to get a guy interested in you

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  1. Anticipate

    Anticipate New Member

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    So I know this may sound kind of high school-y (and I am well beyond the age of high school), but how do you get a guy interested in you? There's this guy I know who's really hot, but I am terrified to talk to him. He is the type of guy you need to impress for you to get his interest. I have no idea how to do this- should I just forget about it, or should I try to do something to impress him, and if so, what???
     
  2. demosnat

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    Wow. Um. You know what? I have no idea. Men are easy, I've never actually put much thought into how to 'get' one. If you let him know you are interested, and he isnt utterly turned off by you, you have a shot. Just speak to him, thats usually all it takes ;)
    Just dont AH it up.

    Why are you interested in this guy? Why are you worried? Is he 'out of your league' so to speak?
     
  3. demosnat

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    (IBmangojuicetrainwreckcoming)
     
  4. DvBoard

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    Depending on what you want exactly, and how attractive you are. You could always flash him and then jump him.
     
  5. otherlank

    otherlank OT Supporter

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    Guys are extremely easy. As demosnat said, if you show interest and he thinks you're attractive, you definitely have a chance. You say you're terrified to talk to him, but you asked what you needed to do...that's it. You have to talk to him. It will be much much harder to attract him without having a conversation first.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Be yourself. If he likes you he will most likely show or tell you.

    Does this guy even know you exist though?
     
  7. DarkAngel19

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    Do you want to date him or fuck him? I would distinguish the two as having different tactics.

    Date him? Each guy is different, if he needs to be impressed, do something cool, like when you're in a group of people messing around, do a stupid human trick. Everyone has one, like I can spit 15 feet. Useful? no... Impressive? Yup. Try that to get his attention and then use conversation to keep things going. Or something along those lines.

    Fuck him? Go up to him some night when you are out together and tell him to meet you in the bathroom in 5 minutes, or that you aren't wearing any panties... you know? That one's easy:)

    It's not hard to get their attention, you just have to stop worrying about what he'll think. Women overthink things, so stop doing that and you should be fine.

    DA
     
  8. MattThom01

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    general tips for both men and women:

    Take care of yourself-shower daily, smell good, keep your appearance neat.

    Have a life. Be interesting, don't behave like a high schooler and get dramatic about other people's relationships.

    Basically, it really does come down to looking nice, being interesting, and not behaving like a little girl.

    Are you looking to attract someone in particular? Or just guys in general? What do you do now? Does it work? More info would help a lot.

    If you want advice on what not to do, go ahead and look up the aforementioned poster's (MangoJuice) topics in here.
     
  9. Emfuser

    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    Got vagina? Not hideous? Disease free?

    Chances are good that we'll be interested.

    It's how we evolved. :hs:
     
  10. You make it too simple for these people. :rofl:
     
  11. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    Hot guys can be very intimidating. He can basically have his pick of the litter so just make yourself stand out more. Be cute, flirt, pretend to be interested in his personality.

    I'm assuming you want a relationship and not just a fuck?
     
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    show him your boobs :) haha. talk to him, give him obvious hints you are interested. if he has any interest he will return the hints
     
  13. demosnat

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    :rofl:
     
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    k0in b4hd New Member

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    be his slave then he'll want u around
     
  15. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    show him your vagina and tell him you're a virgin
     
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    PM me a pic. I'm a girl. No worries.
     
  18. NCS

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    it does sound high-schooly.

    are you good looking?

    you also gave us zero situational content. how do you "know" this guy but have never talked to him? if he's in your social group in any way, just be around, be fun, be flirty. don't AH, but be desirable.
     
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    :ugh: be whore? Is that what you're saying?
     
  20. Emfuser

    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    I usually do not pull the carrot on a stick stuff in here that I do in the main forum. :o
     
  21. marauder

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    Put something black tight and leather on does it for me :drool::drool::drool:
     
  22. MattThom01

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    (Only half serious here)

    if you've got a nice pair of boobs on ya, applying them directly to his face would probably get a reaction. If not, you're chasing a corpse.
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    While I am a girl too and part of me is like "yeah, I want to see her and see if she's at least working with something." We have no clue if this guy is actually good looking. Maybe they're both trolls? Who knows, this girl needs to give us more fucking info, ugh.
     
  24. flowers

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    il give you the best advice EVER.......that is











    TALK TO HIM...lol
     
  25. demosnat

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    :werd: It sounds to me like shes going after someone "out of her league," as long as he isn't a total douche worried about impressing his frat brothers, you probably still stand a decent chance.
     

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