1st off I'm not trying to get her myself. this is a friend of 11 yrs, she used to date a friend for 10 of those 11. her recent "ex" is still in the picture, he treats her like shit makes her feel like she isn't worth anything, she knows this, hates the guy, but still hangs out with him. so can be done about this? it puts a crimp in our friendship at times, for example we hung out today, chillin watching Concordes dvds and the dbag calls, she invites him over. I just bail because i don't want to even see the guy because he will try to mark "his" territory, which will piss me off and a fight will ensue, which will no matter what somehow end up being my fault (he will talk her into seeing t that way) so far all i have planned to bring up was this last situation and tell her why I left, hopefully she atleast gets the hint that I don't want to be around him and not to invite him over when i'm around. but I'm also looking for a way to get her away permanently thoughts?