How to get a blow job from a girl who thinks oral is disgusting?

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  1. 3989213

    3989213 New Member

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    Ok this girl i am with thinks giving a blow job is awfuly disgusting and repulsive, i've tried to talk her into it many times but the thought of her going down on me makes her puke, and thats not due to my personal hygene by any rate, its just that she's not used to anything other than regular sex. I even offered to go down on her but she refused saying that she thinks thats disgusting too!!
    She had never had or given a BJ period.

    Question is... how would you get someone like her interested in oral sex?

    Please share any tricks or techniques you think is useful....
     
  2. Huge Evil Robot

    Huge Evil Robot Must not sleep, must warn others

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    Wake her up bound and with her mouth held open and force it in there until she loves it?



    Really though, communication is key. Or, if she has a sweet tooth, make her a banana split that comes with a prize.
     
  3. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Sorry... but your not. If she was even the least little bit open you might have a chance. Give the relationship time to develop though, she could change her mind...DON'T press the issue or you'll be cutting your chances!
     
  4. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    how long have you been with her? maybe it just takes time for her.

    I don't know how good of an idea this is but try watching porn with her where chicks are just giving bj's. but not those sloppy ass pornos :mamoru:

    or maybe she has her mind set on not ever doing oral and that's something you have to deal with
     
  5. drjamima

    drjamima Active Member

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    When or if you're fooling around make a serious attempt at going down on her. If she doesn't like it, you're fucked, but if she does, it might open her eyes/make her more likely to reciprocate
     
  6. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    My wife is the exact same. Except she actually enjoys the act when we do it (not very often) She just hates the thought before and after.

    My only thing that I can suggest is this:

    try tittyfucking her. If she will let you do that then maybe it will lead to more. My wife has some deliciious DDs that she will let me slide in between everyonce in a while. As far as I can remember she almost always ends up sucking me without me initiating it.

    Just the other night I was tittyfucking her and the next thing I know she grabed my ass and pulled me up and starting sucking.

    Hopefully this helps in some way.

    Good luck and keep us posted on your success.
     
  7. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    One other thing that I just thought about. See if she is willing to play a sex game. I forget the name of the game that my wife and I bought a couple years back but the basic premise is that the winner gets whatever they want. If she is willing to agree to it then enjoy rhe game and hope that she gets turned on by the game so much that she goes down and realizes that there is nothing wrong with it and that she actually enjoys it.
     
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    Is she a sex n00b?
     
  9. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    never force her or talk her into it. in the long run the drama you will create won't be worth it. besides forced head always sucks.
     
  10. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    talk to her about it more. DON"T pressure her about YOU wanting one, but ask her WHY she thinks it's disgusting. if possible, at some point while you guys are getting hot and heavy, finger her and lick her juices off your fingers, tell her how great she tastes, how hot you think it would be to be to be licking her pussy, how great it would feel for her when your tongue is on her clit.... She how she reacts to that and move accordingly.

    But you have to talk to her a lot about geting her comfortable with your bodies. She probably thinks it's disgusting because of what goes on with bodily waste in that area. Best try if she is willing at some point, is to shower together and then go from showering directly to the oral on her and then maybe on you so she is more comfortable with the idea of cleanliness of the genital area.
     
  11. owenstar

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    Get a new girlfriend....bahahaha who wants to train a dog??

    People aint into it...no sense into trying to pressure them...find one who will suck you off till the cows come home
     
  12. nissanpower

    nissanpower I :heart: PeyPey

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    My wife = bj queen of the world. She sucks it like an ice cream cone that is melting in the sun. She likes my load on the tits, ass, mouth, whatever.


    Note - that's why i married her instead of some chick who isn't into oral!
     
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    i've been trying to talk her into it for almost a year, but she seems adamant on not even trying it, she is a big time sex noobe and dont like to try oral because it sounds nasty.,, she tried it with a condom on and loved sucking me.. but she said she will not do it raw!!! and wont let me go down on her either.. !!!!
     
  14. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    she's just young and naive and probably the cleanliness is what she's worried about.
     
  15. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    Or it might be how she was raised. My wife thinks it is something normal people don't do. She feels the same way about sex toys. I want to buy her a vibrator to use when I am not there to satisfy her or to use while I watch or when are having sex.

    Don't know what to say except to echo what others have said that is to not talk about it all the time and make her feel pressured into it.
     
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    does she freely play with your junk? what about in nonsexual situations?
     
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    3989213 New Member

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    she doesnt like to play with my dick when we are not having sex, actually looking at at it turns her off, (unless we're about to have sex) she exteremly inexprianced and believes oral is for the deviant people, and she even equates that with Anal.

    This is some frustrating shit..
     
  18. Bolicious

    Bolicious Handleobraese

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    Tell her your different from other guys: when you bust a nut, a pair of shoes comes out.
     
  19. lauren

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    sounds like shes not really comfortable with your bits. spend any non sexual time naked together?

    i assume shes just not attracted to penises in general. does she get off during sex?
     
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    I've been with women like that. Not worth my time any more. Why should I try to "train" or "trick" her into doing something she doesn't want to do? It may result in her resenting you, and then she'll be unhappy, which will cause a rift in the relationship.

    I, personally, would likely dump her if it was a big deal. I, personally, don't really like blow jobs so it wouldn't matter to me.

    With that being said, get her really drunk. :naughty:
     
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    hehe i like pocos idea
     
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    owenstar and poco have given the only advice worth listening to. Get rid of her and find a girl who likes or loves to suck dick.
     
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    Question is... how would you get someone like her interested in oral sex?


    :rolleyes: First off, you can't force it...Take it slow, hon. Go down on her. Then, see where things end up. You may catch yourself in a lose/lose here though, because a lot of women are set in their ways about the things they like or dont like. Ask her why she doesnt like, and then talk about it. :x: Good luck!!!
     
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  25. sportsjunkie

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    i wish that were the case:hs:


    :mamoru:
     

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