how to flirt?

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by tominos, Feb 20, 2007.

  1. tominos

    tominos New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 11, 2004
    Messages:
    897
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Portland, Oregon
    i don't think i remember how.

    i talk to girls all the time, but its always just that, friendly conversation.

    how do i steer it towards flirting?

    i'm taking this girl out dancing soon, and talk to her in class all the time, just asked for the number today. what do i do? :wiggle:

    haha, it's been a while since my last gf so beer with me. :beer:
     
  2. Alexqzilla

    Alexqzilla New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2006
    Messages:
    3,545
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    East Bay, California
    Direct eye contact!
     
  3. sochbat

    sochbat New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 14, 2007
    Messages:
    60
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    SoCal
    Body language. Girls can tell if you're selfconscious or not. Use hand language/actions to strengthen and emphasize words. be calm, collected, but don't show too much interest. Start off hangin out off campus and ease it on thru. Be interesting, and listen.
     
  4. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

    Joined:
    May 5, 2002
    Messages:
    57,466
    Likes Received:
    7
    Location:
    the streets
    Women flirt, all you have to do is egg it on

    Tease her when you see an opportunity.

    Call her on her bullshit.

    AVOID the "How was your day" "What are you doing later" type stuff.

    Keep conversations fun as much as possible.

    Also if she wants to blow off steam, listen to her and don't talk much. If she's upset, a big hug is much better than a "What's wrong?"
     
  5. xinster

    xinster New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 19, 2006
    Messages:
    4,088
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    UIUC
    there was actually a downloadale link somewhere called how to flirt
     
  6. LocoStrange

    LocoStrange New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2003
    Messages:
    21,661
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Close to Chicago, IL
    I didnt think flirting was hard... because, after a while, its just natural.

    You basically want to treat her like one of your friends but in a more sexual manner. Tease her, find out more about her, be touchy, etc.
     
  7. tominos

    tominos New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 11, 2004
    Messages:
    897
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Portland, Oregon
    hmm, can you give an example? feels like i'm an asexual kind of being when talking with people.:noes:
     

Share This Page