How to deal with your family that won't stop talking about your ex?

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  1. tubachris85x

    tubachris85x New Member

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    Seriously? I've been home only a day, and I've already had to hear about her and her family. I tell them that I dont want to hear about it, but they just keep at it.

    It's like their purpously doing it to get to me. I dont know if they tried to make me feel bad or whatever, but they started saying "you know that *name here* got really sick and almost died not too long ago..." :ugh:

    I can't escape this fucking bullshit no matter how many times I tell them I dont want to hear about it. Kept hearing remarks, "you know it would have been 3 years this week, right?"

    Fuck everything
     
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    Viper OT Supporter

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    I'll go you one further...

    How do you deal with a PARENT (read: my mom) who still talks highly of an ex, goes with her to amusement parks and shit with the kids, and who has in the past undermined MY decisions by going directly to her?
     
  3. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Woah. That's fucking bullshit on both counts.

    And no doubt if you say something you'll be accused of over reacting.

    I agree with D B C Pierre. Families really know where and how deep to stick the knife in
     
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    tubachris85x New Member

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    Thats fucked up man. I doubt that my mother has done anything of the sort, but I have a weird feeling that my ex has been at my house..and possibly in my room...the past months since the break up
     
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    they stopped when I brought home a new girl.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    When you have told them to please stop...what was the extent of you asking them to stop? How many times have you asked?

    Next time they bring her up just walk out of the room. Literally the second her name comes out their mouth walk out, see how they take that.

    From everything I've read from you you are very passive and shy so I honestly can't imagine you sounding serious when telling them to STFU.
     
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    you guys got some fucked up families :\

    edit: eh who am i kidding, everyones family is dysfunctional
     
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    And I thought my mom was bad.... she introduced my ex to my aunt as her "almost daughter in law". Also she she has on more than one occasion told my ex that she should get back together with me and move in with me.... AND she said all this in front of my ex's boyfriend may I add...
     
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    On the contrary, I'm not as passive as you may think. I started with asking, then telling, then raised my voice on several occasions and have walked out of the room. They just simply do not care
     

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