Alright, a really good friend of mine has been dating the same girl for as long as I've known him (they met in college, we're friends from college). His gf is a 'nice girl' as in she means well, I don't think she tries to be annoying, but holy hell she is the most annoying person I know. Anyway, I've bit my tongue for years and just done my best to not let her get under my skin (which is very hard because she is sooooooooooooo damn annoying). I'm not the only one that thinks this either, every single one of his friends can't stand her, her own sister laughs at us because we have to deal with her (friends gf) on a regular basis. For example: This sunday is Super Bowl. Her Birthday is tomorrow. So she decided to combine the two and we're having a birthday party/super bowl party on Sunday (none of us give a shit that it's her birthday, if she wasn't combining the two we wouldn't do anything for her birthday). This doesn't seem that bad of an idea, we can do two parties at once.... she informed us last week that the Super Bowl will no longer be a potluck, it will be Pizza only. Her reasoning? She wants pizza. So instead of just supplying Pizza for her share of the potluck, she insists that we all have to split on a bunch of pizza (again not a huge deal, we're doing the potluck still regardless). Gets better though, she decided to spend $80 on some multi-level bright pink mini-wedding cake for her birthday. Whatever, it's her money... she now expects us to all pitch in towards the cake "because we can't expect her to pay for her own cake".... I had an argument with her last week, because she wanted all of us to go to this all you can eat amazing sushi place downtown before Super Bowl for her birthday. I told her that's a terrible idea because we'll all be sleeping by the time the game is on (anyone who has stuffed their face with raw fish knows how lethargic it makes you). She was pissed, her reason for being pissed was that she can't expect her boyfriend to pay for sushi because he's buying her dinner Saturday night, so our gift to her was to buy her a great sushi dinner (I don't even get my own sisters birthday gifts...). This type of shit happens all the time with her. It's so bad that we invented a game which we've played for a year or so... I won't get into details but it's basically who can say the least amount of words to her, and trick her into having conversations with the other people playing the game... Anyway... the point of my thread. It has gotten to the point that I can't stand to be around her, and I'm having a harder and harder time biting my tongue. I don't want to tear into her or lose my temper (which I seldom lose FYI) but I know it's going to happen sooner or later... probably very soon. I don't want to say anything stupid, because it'll piss off my friend (her bf). And him and I are really good friends, but I know he'll defend her tooth and nail if I give him a reason to, or if he thinks I'm out of line (he is the only person on the planet that doesn't seem to find her annoying). So I need to figure out some way that I can express my dislike of her to him, or her, or both. So that if/when I lose it, it doesn't look like it's coming out of no where, or preventing me from having to do it because I've already said what I need to say. One thing that is not an option: not hanging out with him. Like I said, we're really good friends. The only problem I have with him is she's always in tow and I can't fucking stand her. Cliffs: I can't stand my friends girlfriend, I've put up with her for years and I'm sick of it. He's a good friend of mine, but won't take it well if I tell him his girlfriend is a PITA. It's getting to the point that I can't keep biting my tongue and I need to do something, but what?