FRK How to cum faster...?

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  1. zmiller91

    zmiller91 New Member

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    So, i play around with my girlfriend, and things get going. She gets excited as do i. I start giving her oral, and she gives me it. We then move to sex. Whateva, thats typical.

    Heres my problem, she cant make me cum. In oral i dont think she works it right, and at sex i dont feel much. This is my first time, so i dont know whats wrong. We used a condom so i want to say that it blocked some of the sensation. Tomorrow we are trying lubes...

    Do you guys have any suggestions on condoms that would make me feel better? Any lubes? I can cum when i masturbate, i just want her to make me cum becuase i know she feels bad about it...
     
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    zmiller91 New Member

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    okay, the last time i masturbated was wednesday. ill get extra thin condoms, anyone have this issue before? if so, what did you do?


    That sounds like a test question you get at school...
     
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    crown skinless condoms ftw! (pink ones porn stars use)
     
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    Chitty Chitty Gang Bang OTCC

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    Been there... But I had just had a huge fight with the girl so I wasn't really in the mood... Im thinking that was my problem.
     
  5. zmiller91

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    haha, we had a fight before too! maybe tonight will be better...
     
  6. philvia

    philvia SUCKIN ON MY TITTIES LIKE YOU WANTIN ME CALLIN ME

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    haha usually isn't it the other way around?

    how to last longer :o
     
  7. Ford4Life

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    Try these. If you are just looking to blow a load, pound her hard and fast from behind............you won't last very long. :hs:
     
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    I can rarely cum using condoms unless she's got an extremely tight pussy... and to cum from head your girl really needs to know what she's doing... Good head = 70% good hand motion 20% saliva and 10% oral technique
     
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    I think it's almost all in the head. If you're nervous, distracted, upset, anxious.. etc., you could have performance issues. Then again, many guys would love to have your problem, including me. When my wife says things like "don't stop", that's pretty much it for me, lol.
     
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    Get into it mentally. The brain really is the biggest sex organ. If you are into it in your mind, you will cum faster.
     
  11. zmiller91

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    id gladly meet you half way. haha.

    tonight i still didnt cum. however, i told her how to give a correct handjob, and not just rub the bottom of the shaft. i was about to burst, and i got distracted...whateva, i got her off a few times and thats all that counts.

    thanks for the advice everyone!
     
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    like others said, experiment with condom brands and jack off less.... If you don't give yourself the hand for a week imagine how fast you'll bust. Just try not to go insane without beating it for a week.
     
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    wannaseemysocks I Have Big Socks...

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    agreed
     
  15. Marix

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    Definitely stop wanking as much.

    Think about it - no matter how tight a girl is, she's never going to be as tight as your own hand grip. And no matter how good her pussy is or her technique is, it can never rub exactly the places you want in exactly the way you want it in the same way that your hand can.

    And maybe have her play with/squeeze your balls as you're doing her. And if you're a bit more kinky, she could put a finger up your ass - that works pretty well IMO
     
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    are you sure you relay do like women? I cant imagine not finishing your first time. I think I made it halfway in and I was done the first time, I was exited.
     
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    have you been drinking before these encounters?

    For me if I get a couple shots of booze or a 12 pack in me I can go all night long. ( not always a good thing )

    If no booze, id say maybe lay off the caffene, and stop worrying about it. Sex is supposed to be fun so just have fun and you will get there.
     
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    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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  19. Dajamany

    Dajamany noob

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    When i first started having sex i went through a similar thing. Probably just part 'nervousness' part 'something you're not physically used to'. Start with this and then just give it time, your body/mind will get used to it.
     

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