How to conquer low self esteem?

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  1. BrewCrew

    BrewCrew Active Member

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    Well I am 23. Haven't really dated a girl since this time last year, even then we really weren't dating. Anyways, the reason why i have low esteem is because im going bald. Lame excuse i know, but it started when i was 18, but didnt really get back until i turned 22. Lol, i dont know what else to say, usually I just talk to one of my friends about something like this.
     
  2. Viper

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    You shouldn't be so hard on yourself.

    shave it all off and be completely bald and grow a goattee. A lot of girls think that is extremely hot. :dunno:
     
  3. Mugen92GS-R

    Mugen92GS-R New Member

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    How 'bald' are you going?

    I have a pretty heavy receding hair line and I'm 23... I never let it bother me. In fact, I just went on a date last night and she said she likes guys with hairlines like mine
     
  4. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    what Vip said. Just don't leave patches on ur head or try to hide it. Be cool and embrace it.


    One of my buddies is going bald and all he does is claim he is John McClane.....girls love it.
     
  5. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    You might look like a bad ass with a shaved head... i had some roommates that had a bet to shave their heads and see who could go the longest with out cutting it and when the shaved their heads they looked better...
     
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    Like everyone has said, just shave it, or at least cut it real short (clippers, 1 guard or no guard). It wont be noticeable and guys with shaved heads are hot.
     
  7. MMJ4mil

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    heh my hair is thinning too . right now my hair is long. will get it cut before easter. then for the summer i shave it real low for the beach
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dude, I have a friend who is honestly not the most attractive...he also seriously went bald by 20. Now he shaves off whatever does grow and he scores so many good looking women it's insane. If it doesn't bother you, it doesn't bother them.
     
  9. 2angelmd

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    Yup.

    Then lift some weights, smile at women and look them in the eye when talking to them.

    Fat ugly pig's get hot chicks because of the other stuff they've got going on. So have other things going on.
     
  10. Meg

    Meg Be patient... I'm trying to post more!

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    My ex had a receding hairline at 23 (when I met him), and I thought he was mad sexy! My brother always has girls chasing after him, and he lost his hair at 20. Confidence and a good sense of humor are much more important than hair. Don't let something like that get in your way!
     
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    shave that shit and be confident man. girls arent going to care about it unless YOU let it bother you.
     
  12. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    shave your head. you will look better. a lot better
     
  13. 2angelmd

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    Let's see a pic
     
  14. dontfearthegovt

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    needs pics.
     
  15. Peyton Manning

    Peyton Manning I love your mom a whole, whole lot.

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    Fuck you, man. You think that's a big fucking deal? I got psoriasis all over my body. It's all over my arms, my face, my ears, my torso, my limbs. Google plaque psoriasis for what it looks like.

    Also, I have an accent, and not one that's generally considered "hot". I am about 5'9, 165 and a very average-looking motherfucker.

    If I can get laid, so can you. I don't read those PUA bullshit all these internet nerds keep yapping about. I don't need to seduce girls with my stare. I get laid because I don't give a fuck what others think about my psoriasis. You know what that does to people around me? They get fucking cool and shit too. When my psoriasis flared up in the middle of winter and there was a big red patch on my nose, I had a professor jokingly ask me if I got a sunburn from a tropical vacation or something. I said, nah it's psoriasis. He started apologizing, and I said what for? It's just psoriasis.

    So don't be a fucking bitch about it. If you are comfortable with what you have, bitches will be too.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ooo, what accent?
     
  17. Falconer

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    premature balding crew signing in.

    i've had nicolas cage's hairline since i was 20 :hs: receding like a mofo.

    i dont shave it cuz i have a big head and i'm pale and i would look like a giant thumb or this stereotypical dorky science nerd image i have in my head.

    i have to shave it soon, tho. it recedes more and more each day.

    anyway dude ur not alone.
     
  18. 2angelmd

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    Well said sir!
     
  19. Peyton Manning

    Peyton Manning I love your mom a whole, whole lot.

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    Boood lite
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: Minnesota?
     
  21. Peyton Manning

    Peyton Manning I love your mom a whole, whole lot.

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    I am guessing you haven't seen Carlos Mencia's bud lite ads. :o
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    No, I hate that guy. I'm so confused. Accents are hard to determine via the interweb. But I'm assuming Spanish now.
     
  23. BlackIce72

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    Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz

    He's a plastic surgeon who also consults with people on psychological image issues as well.

    As far as "self-help" books go, this is an oldie but a goodie. A true classic and before the times of these dime a dozen books. A favorite of mine.
     
  24. ww_Crimson

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    Same situation here. I think part of my problem is from a medication I'm on. I try and keep the hair fairly short and it doesn't bother me. The only people who comment on my hair really are other guys, and if they have something rude to say then I usually come back with something sort of witty about their hair to shut them up. I seriously can't think of a single time a girl said something negative about my hair.
     
  25. JordanClarkson

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    Hours of programming on the computer made me start losing my hair at 18. So I just shaved it off :)
     

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