My apologies if this question has been asked before. I searched, but was unable to find anything relevant. Background: GF and I have been dating for almost 2 years, and have only been having sex for about 6 months. I took her virginity. I was not a virgin at the time. So, obviously she doesn't have much experience... My question is this: How can I bring out the freak in her? I want her to feel open about her sexual feelings and tell me about them. She never brings up sex in conversation and etc. Im hoping this will get better over time. She has been away for the past 2 months, so I figured she would..at some point..bring up sex during a phone conversation, but nothing yet. I think she might be embarrassed? I don't want her to feel like she is doing anything wrong, I just want her to become more open to talking about sex, what she likes, how she likes it, and etc. Even when we are in bed, I have to ask her, because she is not very vocal. I have to tell her to talk to me. How did you get your SO to become a freak in bed?