How to be amazing in bed?

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  1. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    So when girls say size doesn't equal good sex, what are some techniques/tips that makes the difference between good sex and bad sex?

    especially those of you who don't have the porn star dicks, how do keep your woman pleased?

    oral isn't an issue, I've had enough compliments from that, but as far as intercourse goes, you can't tighten a 9/16 nut with a 7/16 wrench if you know what I mean.
     
  2. WynneChester

    WynneChester you're under fuck off for grand fuckin' offin'!

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    The g-spot is only a few inches into the vagina, so you can either use your fingers, or in certain sexual positions you can try to stimulate it with your penis (again, size isn't an issue as long as you can get a few inches in.)
    Try with her under you, facing you, with her knees drawn close to her chest. Doggy style can also be good for g spot stimulation. In that position, you can also use a free hand to stimulate her nipples or her clitoris while you penetrate her.

    edit: I should add, though, that no two girls are exactly alike, just as no two men are exactly alike. Communication is key; try to read her moans. If that's not roadmap enough to tell you what you're doing right, ask her to tell you exactly what she wants. This could be hot for her because you're giving her control. Let her tell you what she wants and how she wants it.
     
  3. Drilldo

    Drilldo Active Member

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    In my experience it's all about the chemistry the two of your share. Outside of that I'd say foreplay, knowing your body and hers, stamina... :hsughno:
     
  4. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    Here's my bread and butter. I change it up to keep her guessing, but this where its at:

    In the missionary position, I use my abs to press my pubic bone against her pubic bone. Then I scoop with my hips. My penis is basically all the way in the whole time, and I keep pressure on her mound.

    I change it up by raising my upper body up onto my hands supporting my weight on my arms and I pound her while grasping her buttocks with my hands.

    I switch back and forth, usually when she is getting close to cumming I will move from the scoop to the pounding, then back to the scoop.

    Always be mindful that you don't want to be predictable. Mix it up.
     
  5. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Find a girl that can only get off from oral. She won't expect to get off from sex and she'll be happy as long as she's getting the oral orgasms.
     
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    -argonaut- New Member

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    Pay attention.
     
  7. antihero

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    :ugh: I hate that
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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  9. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

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    I've been reading about this thing called a yoni massage, a guide on how to do it actually. I'm gonna try it when I get the chance.
     
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    yoni=from Kama Sutra no?
     
  11. armond

    armond New Member

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    Depends on the woman.

    For instance, my babe, is actually derives the most pleasure from missionary and from girl-on-top.

    In missionary, I tend to do a bit of hair pulling along with the attention to her breasts. Her back also gets a bit of work from me, meaning I place my hands on the small of her back and do some semi-massage/semi-lifting. I can tell when she gets the most of it thru particular signs, examples: scratching with nails, grabbing my ass, biting my neck/shoulder area. Look for the signs.

    With girl-on-top I let her take the wheel. She gets to control how she wants it. This is a good way to notice that she only needs a few inches to get going and to get off. While she is on top I tend to focus on her breasts and her inner thighs, knees, feet, and small of her back(if I sit up). I can tell when she gets off cause she is a squirter. So with her on top, then getting off, I am getting a bit wet eh? :naughty:

    Also, the buildup from foreplay and some oral stimulation is great. In those cases, she can just slide along my penis, and she gets off! It is about mindset as well. Be confident.
     
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    Lateralus New Member

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    Seriously this is probably the best advice you can get, just listen to how she is reacting, when it sounds like she's really liking what you're doing, don't stop just keep doing it.
     
  13. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    hate what?
     
  14. razi

    razi New Member

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    if you pull her legs up over hour shoulders (or have her put her feet on your chest) it will rotate her hips up to you and shorten the depth of the vagina.

    +1 on paying attention. experiment and try different things and positions. give her a slap on the ass, etc. make her beg for it. find what her buttons are and push them.

    actually no, don't just push them. play 'em like liberace at the piano.

    practice builds self-confidence, and that above all else is what girls want from you.
     
  15. firedancer

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    communication.

    ask her what she likes - tell her what you like!
    start with a healthy conversation outside of the bedroom...
     
  16. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

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    I'm not sure if its from the Kama Sutra itself or just the same tradition.

    Yoni=vagina in Sanskrit.
     
  17. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    Try the ol' 1-2 in&out...its basically 1 stroke, 2nd stroke then out and then go back in and do it again. Go deeper and longer with every stroke.
     
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    :werd: I absolutely love this

    damn...I love this too :mamoru:

    teasing is a big thing for me too...dunno if a lot of girls like that, but it's a major turn on
     
  19. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    mmmm, this is ALL very good info to know for the future ;-) :naughty:
     
  20. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    Stop focusing so much on giving her physical pleasure and focus more on getting her mind into it. Use rich descriptions of what you are going to do, where you are going to take her, blah blah. Read a romance novel or ten and find out what turns women on, and then USE IT.

    Cliffs: Fuck her mind first, pussy second.
     
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    gabacho numero uno New Member

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    Interesting concept, bandwagon.
     
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    HighTachPres New Member

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    enjoy sex
    go wild
    be vocal
    call her a slut... they love it :naughty:
     
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    My point exactly, listen, then proceed accordingly.

    The logic behind this simple observation has already been covered, yet there is still an additional benefit to be had in paying attention to her and her reactions..., you stop paying attention to yourself and this increases your stamina!

    You see, the majority of guys out there are only focused on themselves/getting themselves off, so they actually pay no attention to the girl. They just get in there, get want they want (self-gratification), and then get out..., that's why you've heard so many accounts of unsatisfied girls that were "rode hard, but put away wet".

    Pay attention, focus on her, forget about you and don't worry, you're still going to get what you came for (it's unavoidable), you'll just encourage her to want to give you all that much more by your putting her needs first over those of your own..., girls really should cum/come first.
     
  24. antihero

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    girls that only get off from oral.
     
  25. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    This is rare i think.

    I would love that.
     

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