how to ask out girl in class

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  1. 98formyws6

    98formyws6 New Member

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    what's the best way to ask out a girl in your class? is it 'want to get a cup of coffee sometime'

    also when is the best time to ask her, right when you get to know her (or get to know her some more, wait a few weeks) and when i say when you get to know her meaning the first time you talk to her lol
     
  2. bandwagon

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    Broken down into 2 steps (oversimplified):

    1. Have a fun, lighthearted conversation, and maybe tease her a bit
    2. Close with "I'm going to be at X place at X time. You should come."
     
  3. 98formyws6

    98formyws6 New Member

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    so what do i say? "do you want to go out sometime"?

    im kinda :greddy: when it comes to these matters, dunno how i ever got a date now that i think bout it
     
  4. bandwagon

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    Don't ask her. Just TELL her you're going out and you'd like it if she could join you.
     
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    :werd:
     
  6. gkremian

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    If you ask her, you put her in control. If you want her to want you, take control. You tell her where you're going to be, and tell her she should be there. If she tries to take control, step up and be the man!

    Connect first, build the comfort zone, tell her.
     
  7. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I agree, except with the rhetoric "be the man!" This kind of language can lead to confidence issues. Take the lead because taking the lead is what works ... whether that fits the stereotype of masculinity or not is irrelevant.
     
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    Fine. Fine. Be the man, baby, yeah. :naughty:

    Better?
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :werd:

    If all else fails, try the classic line.

    "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?"
     
  11. pholom

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    what type of place..movies seem to be the usual.
     
  12. Yail Bloor

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    Never, ever ask "do you want to go out sometime"

    Its way too vague. Why would she agree to that? You must have a plan. A plan consists of a time and a place (like bandwagon mentioned).

    Never, ever go into battle without a plan.
     
  13. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Movies? :hsugh: Oh my, my, my.... much work to be done here.

    Movies are about the WORST place to take someone for a first date if you don't already know them beforehand. The point of dating is to get to know someone, and you can't do that in a movie theater.

    Go someplace light and casual where you can talk, and get to know eachother first. Keep the first meeting short, maybe an hour or two tops. After that, give it a little time to marinade, and go in for a second meeting.

    Especially since this girl is in a class with you, make it someplace neutral that's on campus, preferably a place you can find a private spot so as not to be interupted by her/your friends.

    :bigthumb:
     
  14. Yail Bloor

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    action dates are the best

    mini-golf, bowling, pool, go-karts, a downtown walk

    anything but the movies or dinner.
     
  15. R.Kelly

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    i usually whip out my penis and slap her with it. If she screams, then i dont ask her out. If she moans, then its game time.
     
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    HaHa Thats usually the way I do it too
     
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    "Be prepared for the worst, so anything else is a pleasant surprise", I do that sometimes too. More often with exams than women though.
     

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