LGBT How to approach him?

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by hereticide, Apr 13, 2005.

  1. hereticide

    hereticide Guest

    so there's this guy i know at school. i don't really know him or talk to him much, and i can't make a clear discernment on his sexual orientation. i am really shy, and i don't know how to act around him. what do i do?
     
  2. Electric Head

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    Well that depends, really. Are you out at school? Or closeted?
     
  3. hereticide

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    closet for me. friend tried the whole coming out thing and it didn't work too well. ;)
     
  4. Electric Head

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    :fawk:
    That was discouraging. How many people know about you?
     
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    Hmmm...its very tough, as you (and I) know, to score men while closeted.
     
  7. hereticide

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    especially when you don't know what is up with THEM, either . . . and don't talk to them cause you're too shy. ;_;
     
  8. Electric Head

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    Everyone's a little bit shy. You gotta fight through it and perservere.
     
  9. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    I'd say try to get to be friends with him first. That'll give you a better idea of his preference.
     
  10. Team503

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    I agree with Wolf. If you think he's cute (or attractive, or hot, or whatever you kids call it these days), get to know him. Find out if there's more than a pretty face. In the process of doing that, not only will you find out if he's worth dating, but you'll probably get a pretty good idea of whether he's gay or not.

    Watch the eyes - they tell all. (They also stare at guys instead of girls for some people ;) ).
     
  11. hereticide

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    i don't know how to act around him and i don't know what to say or what to talk about. i just . . . tighten up and my mind goes blank. ugh, gonna be hard to make friends. x_x
     
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    Pretty much true, but also a lot of closet cases look at girls to convince themselves or others that they are str8.:ugh:
     
  13. Electric Head

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    You still got 2 years bro. You'll work up the courage. You know I got your back. :hsd:
     
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    Just be honest. Trust me.
     

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