Let me first give some background information. This girl has been with a buddy of mine for the past year. Somewhere about 9 months ago me and her just fell for each other. We had been super good friends for a long time while they were going out, and one night she kissed me. Changed everything between us. We hung out all the time, and were all over each other in private...but had to act like we didn't really like each other to keep the secret. She tried to break up with him for me multiple times but it just wasn't working in which I eventually fucked her...and somewhere down the line I couldn't take the fact that I was #2, and ended it. She had a point though, we were all in the same group of friends. She doesn't drive either and most of her friends were in someway connected to her bf, so everytime she tried to break up with him...it would never work. So for the past 6 months we have been primarily friends as we don't want to complicate things. We honestly hang out more than her and her bf do, but we always have to kinda hide it from him because he doesn't like her spending so much time with me. Basically we both know that we love one another, and everyonce in a while we can't help it and make out...but it's just too awkward for it to work with our group of friends. The two of them are in a horrible...HORRIBLE relationship and fight all the time. She'd break up with him once every 2 months because of dumbass shit he'd do. (cheat, lie, whatever) The last time they majorly broke up, I figured it was time for me to make my move...and that backfired horribly as she said I didn't give her enough time and smothered her. When in reality I just didn't want her to get back with him. Fast forward to three days ago. We've been hanging out all week and I can tell that she is starting to fall for me again. (let me remind you i'm crazy about this girl, she knows I am) We even started making out like woahh when we were drunk at a party. She is gorgeous, and constantly has guys all over her when she goes out...which makes me really nervous because they call her all the time. She broke up with my buddy today because she accepted the fact that it is a horrible relationship and she is leaving for college in 2 months anyways (we are going to the same school. ). It seemed like the first legitimate break up they've ever had as most of them happened when the other screws up. This one they actually came to terms. I asked her what she was doing tommorow, and basically told me that she didn't want to hang out with me in fear of what happened last time. Now I know I need to give her space, but I don't want to give her too much because now that she is single, guys are gonna be all over her sooo fast. On top of that this other guy has been talking to her a bunch and I know for a fact he is trying to hit it. I need to know what to do...because I REALLY don't want to fuck this up this time. ****CLIFFS**** -Girl and I have a thing behind my kinda-friend's back, but it is ok because he is a complete scumbag to her. We end up falling for each other pretty hard. didn't even mean to. -They break up 6 months back, and I fuck up and "smother" her too much, and they end up getting back together. I was only "smothering" her because I was scared they would get back together...in which they did. -Me and her remained super super tight, and I know she still has a thing for me because she's told me multiple times she still has tons of feelings for me. -They broke up today, seemingly for good, but there are other guys who are trying to get with her. I'm scared because I don't want her to get with them...yet don't want to fuck up again by smothering her. sorry it was so long. There's still a bunch I left out...but you don't really need EVERYTHING.