how stupid would it be to just rely on sponge + pullout method?

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    title prolly sounds stupid to most of you, but there's a couple of issues. first about condoms: i can't cum when i'm using a condom. i've gone 2+ hrs trying to get it done a few times with a condom but i just cant. another problem is my gf cannot take pills. last time she took pills, she started getting nauseous, random aching, etc.
     
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    then have her try a different pill. how long did she try taking them? the first 3 months or so will make some women nauseous, spot, moody, etc

    i would be nervous about just relying on a pull out method. i dont know anything about the sponge so i cant offer any advice on that

    has she looked into things like the shot or that nuva ring?
     
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    nuva ring is the shit. almost completely idiot proof
     
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    she took it for two months actually

    details on the shot/ring?
     
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    she may want to try it again, but for longer this time. her doctor should have told her she needs to try it out for 3 months to get used to the difference in hormones.

    i dont know much info about either the shot or the ring, but as far as i know, you get the shot every 3 months and you have the ring 3 weeks out of the month. they all give her the same hormones as the pill does though, they just tend to be more idiot proof methods of taking BC

    check out the sticked thread in this forum. from what i remember, it has a lot of details on all different types of BC
     
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    i doubt i'll ever get her on the pill again. after she stopped taking the pill, she still felt the side effects for several more months
     
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    Diaphragm + Spemacide?
     
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    Plenty of different types of pill out there.. she might be better with one

    Also, was she on the "normal" pill (oestrogen+progesterone) or progesterone only?

    Otherwise there is a nuvaring which inserts into the vagina and you change it once a month (IIRC). There's also a skin patch which works in a similar way.

    I wouldn't suggest the injection though. Not if she's had problems with the pill before. With a pill you can stop taking it, but with the injection you can't.
     
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    perfectly reasonable....so long as you don't find it too irritating.
     
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    I only use the pull out method and have only ever been using it... Of course I don't recommend this for everyone, a sponge + pull out should be more than adequate.

    I don't feel anything with condoms.....
    The pill is out of the question because it kills womens sexual drives and makes them into emotional wrecks, not to mention wreaks havoc on their bodies.
     
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    what is the sponge method?
     
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    You pull out and cum into a sponge, then wash yourself with it.
     
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    sounds sticky
     
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    Buy better condoms
     
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    They still/again sell those? What if you are not sponge worthy? :mamoru:
     
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    yeah, based only one the sienfeld episode, i thought they were no longer around! :rofl:
     
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    I don't know which pill she took. I doubt she'd know it either :dunno:

    I'm looking into the ring now.
     
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    what kind of condoms were you trying
     
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    i've used trojans before. the ones i'm using now are "sensithin" by durex
     
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    what about trying other really thin/sensitive condoms? cant use one and go "it doesnt work".
     
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    She really should know what she's taking. :ugh:
     
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    Try Crown Skinless. I hear they are amazing. My favorite so far are Trojan Elexa, but I've not yet tried the Crowns
     
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    Have you both been tested? Because I wouldn't be having unprotected sex with someone unless I knew they were clean. Pregnancy is but one STD you can catch.

    Once the STD issue is sorted I would then look at other contraception methods. There is the IUD, diaphragm, Miranda(sp?), injection, several pills.
     

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