How soon to you tell someone that you want to date them exclusively? I'm known this girl for about 3 years, and we've recently begun dating (because reasons that were a factor for 3 years were no longer a factor), and after only 4 weeks I know that I want to date her exclusively. I know what I like, and I found the right combination once about 8 years ago. Well that didn't work out, and now I started dating this girl...and I definitely want to date just her and noone else. The problem is...should I tell her? I mean i'm not proposing, but I am just saying that I want to date her exclusively. I know that the she has likes me a lot as well, but not sure if it's as much as I like her. Thoughts?