How should I react?

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  1. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    I've been seeing this girl for 1yr 3 months were not bf/gf but we see each other every single day and she sleeps over at my house every day........she told me she still thinks of her ex-bf and calls him sometimes .......how should i react??? what should i do?:wavey:
     
  2. quid

    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    thats a bad situation........

    become exclusive or move on
     
  3. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    yes we have sex every night she sleeps over.....

    the next step she wants to take is marriage.....

    she does not want to go through the whole bf/gf thing....go figure, I think I only fall into that category.......

    as far as the ex-bf she told me she still cares about him, but in a different way not the loving way but as a person....they were together for 5yrs
     
  4. quid

    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    then ask her to marry you and see what she says...

    :dunno:

    i think long term sexual relationships with no known boundries and no label and the possibility of non-exclusiveness are the worst idea in life.
     
  5. Chicago

    Chicago Unleash The Dragon - Sexy Rexy For President

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  6. Mojo

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    "now i aint saying she a gold digga...."
     
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    next time she tries to call him, break her phone, i think that'd be a good start, why would she care so much about him to call him as a person? is he starting drugs is he an alcoholic because she left him? i mean as far as i can see you got it good man, you're fuckin this chick every night and you don't even have to worry about her clinging to your leg every 3 seconds...bravo :bigthumb:
     
  8. ProneToEpisodes

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    This girl is playing you... You need to move on and give your love to some one deserving.
     
  9. Coco Monkey

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    how can you two be together for over a year and still not put a title on your relationship??

    that doesnt make sense to me.
     
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    From all of the threads that you have made.....I dont think this relationship is going anywhere. She doesnt think you show her enough love, she wants to visit her X, yet prior to that she told you that she changed her cell phone number bc her x kept callin her and she didnt want to talk to him, etc. There is no need to wishwash on love. If she loves you, there would be no contact with him like there has been all along. Id move along.
     
  11. purplebeast

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    Sounds to me like she is just applying preasure to close the deal.
     
  12. chlywly

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    This does not sound like a good idea.
     
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    Danger Will Robinson Danger!!!!

    I dont care if she is porking you...SHE STILL THINKS ABOUT HER EX.

    That alone is enough to make me leave
     
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  15. low20

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    hm, last time i checked, if you go out with someone for 5 yrs and break up, it doesnt mean you should cut off all human contact with the person. who said they cant just be friends. sounds like she told u she only cares about him in a friend sort of way. and if you guys see eachtoehr and have sex every night, then i think the only thing keeping you from being bf/gf is the actual title, shes not really skipping the bf/gf stage.
     
  16. Yail Bloor

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    because she doesn't want that and apparently he will put up with any amount of disrespect from her
     
  17. krondo

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    i'm pretty sure you just got served
     
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  19. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    If a girl ask you.....

    "if I left you, what do you have to lose?"

    what would be the proper response?
     
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    dscallaway69 New Member

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    Not very much if you are asking me that question.

    Please tell me she did not ask you this. You need to do one of two things. Either ask her to marry you or kick her to the curb. One way or the other due something and make it official.
     
  21. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    I disagree. If there is any question in his mind that he should not marry her then he should not get married. I don't think that people take marriage seriously enough. It's a big step. If you question it then by getting married you aren't taking that step seriously and personally I think thats immediate grouds for failure.
     
  22. Scott7

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    Bail!
     
  23. dscallaway69

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    Don't get me wrong I am not saying marriage is the solution here. I am just saying if he loves her and wants to marry her then ask her. If he doesn't then get the hell out. I agree with you completely marriage is not a fix all and people now a days don't take it seriously enough.
     
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  25. NotDave

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    tell her how you feel. talk goddamnit
     

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