how should i play this conversation v.cheating

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  1. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    backgrounds: dating 3 months, we see each other 3-4 times a week. (thurs/fri-sunday). We hooked up (make out while drunk) for ~3 months before we started dating, she was in a bad relationship at the time (her boyfriend sucked, they dated for 8 months and never had sex)

    This weekend GF and I got drunk at her friends house. She drinks a fifth, I deem her to drunk to drive and take her keys. After asking her ~10 times to come to a friends house who lives close by to sleep she refuses, and wants to drive home, but because she does not have her key, she cant. Me and a friend leave, I sleep on his floor.

    She ends up sleeping at the house we left, in the room of someone she used to hook up with (only making out)

    On sunday she is mad at me for 'abandoning' her. I havent talked to her yet. Going to talk to her tonight. How should I play this conversation?

    I dont know if she hooked up with the dude, and I am gullible, and she is a good liar (i see her lie all the time to other people). I'd say there is a really good chance she didnt, but she could have and I'll never know.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: You make the exact same thread 2 days ago and deleted it when everyone told you it was stupid to stay in a "relationship" with this girl. Now you make it again and think our answers will be any different? :hsugh:

    I'll give you the same comment I gave in your other identical thread
     
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    it sounds like she's telling you an awful lot about her ex boyfriend. how about his side of the story?

    did you ask her why was she with him for 8 months if it was so bad?
     
  4. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    Truthfully, her dad is a CEO of a company that does 50 million in sales every year, I am trying to start my own company and he would be a very good source of contacts, advice, potential investment capital. :o

    but besides that I like spending time with her.
    It was her first relationship, long distance, she didnt know how to end it. I am friends with her ex, and I was actually planning on living with him at one point.
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    If youre in this relationship purely out of greed for your professional future...then i would say you should

    1. Shut the fuck up
    2. wear a condom at all times with her
    3. get STD tests frequently
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rolleyes:

    Edit-Good luck with her stinky pussy :hsugh:
     
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    k624ash New Member

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    She drank a fifth? of what? thats a lot of liquor.
     
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    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    you sound like a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE PRICK. good luck in life.
     
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    Of course thats not why I am in the relationship, I like being around her, she is sexy hot, all the normal reasons people are in a relationship, etc.
    but how can i not think about that?
     
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    :hs: I am to skurred to bring it up :noes: How can she not smell that shit?
    skyy vodka, yes it is.
    I am totally not.
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    yea dont kid yourself
     
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    Your answer to why you are in a relationship with her was that her dad was a CEO, and besides that she is fun to be with.

    So you already said thats why your in the relationship, and the liking being around her is just a bonus
     
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    How is this different than staying in a relationship because a girl is super hot? (because shes that too)
     
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    im not judging you buddy, i tried to give you the best advice i can...im just saying dont kid yourself as to the reasons...cause you aint gonna kid md
     
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    Damn dude, she drank a fifth of vodka? how big is this girl?
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    :rofl:
     
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    filho do deus New Member

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    5' 2'' 110 pounds or so
     
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    and don't forget he made out with her for 3 months while his FRIEND was dating her long-distance :rofl:

    good guy :ugh2:
     
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    I'm a 190lb irish college senior with some heavy drinking under my belt. Im not saying I cant finish a fifth in a night, but thats a damn drunk night for me.
     
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    she must be an alcoholic
     
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    filho do deus New Member

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    I liked her first. I hooked up with her one night, and then the next night he asks her to prom and they start dating. 6 months later, I am chilling with her at my house, and her boyfriend comes through at like 3am. He doesnt ask her to come back to his house to sleep, he bounces without her. :wtf: I made her sleep on the couch that night though. :hs:

    She has a high tolerance and drinks a 2 fifths a weekend.
     
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    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    oh so you're 18? ok then i don't give a fuck. this is dumb anyway.
    you guys will break up within a few months, and her dad will never help you anyway.

    (out of thread)
     
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    22. Before this fight i was supposed to go to their cabin for thanksgiving and I was gonna pitch him the idea. :noes:
     
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    Like my last thread, this one got shitted on and no one is giving me advice and getting sidetracked by other shit.
     
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    I tried man...im not sure what kind of deep epiphany enducing advice you could expect out of a situation like this....it sounds like a really shitty situation but im not gonna shit on you if you are trying to secure your future with it.
     

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