FRK how should i go about asking her?

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  1. LEFTY02

    LEFTY02 New Member

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    pegging
    id like to try it but dont know how to approach my GF. im pretty sure she would go for it and probably would enjoy it. we have been living together for just under a year and i will most likely ask her to marry me some time this year. (just some backround info) we have joked about it before and she gets really excited about it, but i always act like it will never happen for fear of what she will think of me. sometimes during sex or even just laying in bed she will rub my anus and try to stick a finger in, but i pull away and act like i dislike it, while at same time im thinking "this is your chance, grab the lube and hand it to her"
     
  2. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    Do it to her, or tell her you want to do it to her. Alot of girls will be like "FINE, but Iget to do it to you to." BOOM! You're in.

    NOTE: Don't come off too excited. Just be like "Sounds fair."

    Also if you plano n marryin her you should feel free neough to ask for something you want to try, nothin wrong with experimenting.
     
  3. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    Play dumb. The next time she rubs your asshole, don't pull away. She'll either do it or stop. But most likely, she'll push the issue and go for it. And when she does, go nuts. The next day, tell her that "wow..i wasnt expecting that but Oh my god..that was awesome." She'll feel encouraged and do it again. :)
     
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    you could always go the drunk route too, just have some drinks, and start, if she goes for it and gets you off and ends up being appauled (sp) then you can always play it off and say that you were "drunk"
     
  5. aphoric

    aphoric Even if god did exist, it would be necessary to ab

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    If she comes home and finds you walking around naked with a pony tail buttplug in I think she will get the hint.

    Or you could talk about it, if you are gonna marry her, you gotta be able to say crazy shit you want to do and not "get in trouble" or have her think you are nuts. I was married before and we could not talk about anything, so that marriage was just for practice. This time I am with someone who usually knows what I am thinking because she is either thinking the same thing, or I tell her. Communication is the key, the two of you could be laying next to eachother for the next 50 years thinking "man I want it in the butt" and not getting it because you are afraid of the other's reaction. I would say talking is the best route, because it will be more than just getting what you want, it will be laying the foundation for future communications that are far more taboo hopefully!
     
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    I like a lot of the comments in here....but the one I agree with the most, which I think is important, if you plan on getting married is talking about things. You should be at a point now where you can talk about anything. No need to keep secrets from one another. Let her know how you feel. If she showed NO interest in it, than I might recommend not saying anything, but she has expressed a curiosity, so, be honest :big grin:
     
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    thanks,great advice from everyone. we do talk about everything and know each other inside and out, this is pretty much the only subject i have avoided.

    she likes anal too, weve done it a few times and she likes watching anal porn. so i think she will go for it, but i still have that notion in the back of my head that its ''wrong". and she might think that too.

    i sent her a text message asking if she knew what pegging was.
    she said no, but i didnt want to tell her because she was around a group of friends at the time.
    i sent her an email with a couple informative tasteful links. wikepedias definition of pegging, and a FAQ page. well see what she thinks later today

    edit: im nervous:noes:
     
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    uh oh:eek3:

    edit: bad idea
     
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    :bigthumb: phew

    edit: aslo a bad idea
     
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  10. NJGuy

    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    hahaha, chicks!

    Gotta love em.
     
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    anyone know a good online store? possibly that ships descreatly? and any suggestions on what to get?
     
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    Haha reminds me of the conversation I had last night with my gf...

    Her: blah blah blah something something (can't really remember) I love you
    Me: I love you too
    Her: When are we gonna get married
    Me: ... when you have earned it
    Her: You're an asshole
    Me: bahahahahahahahahaha... no seriously though
     
  13. N-Word-Jim

    N-Word-Jim Cure for boredom

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    Ahh this thread has perked up my mood... I need to go find someone :big grin:
     
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    craigslist.org :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
     
  15. LEFTY02

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    :rofl:
    she does the same thing all the time
     
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    sriously tho, reading this gave me the courage to ask her. thankyou :)
     
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    glad u got some help and people were able to give you good assistance. Besides, if that is something that you want it is important that it is out in the open.....

    Just one thing, make sure she is okay with you sharing her msn convo's....I know some people get VERY upset over that ;)

    Hopefully things work out well. I would help you with online stores, but I am on the other Coast, in another country LMAO, so, my assistance would be rather limited. But, why don't you just try a store there?
     
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    N-Word-Jim Cure for boredom

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    If she doesn't love you enough to just do you in the butt (without a very good reason) than I would strongly evaluate the relationship.
     
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    Hehehehehe. I have that. Except in reverse colors :drool: I LOVE IT
     
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    Hahahaha. axerian and woodyy... so are you guys plannin on poppin the question or what? Hehehe. Just curious!
     
  23. LEFTY02

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    August 13:)

    edit: we looked at some stuff on stockroom and ordered a beginners kit, and got a free pair of handcuffs
     
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    Sweet! She wants to do you IDB, she shops at stockroom with you... she sounds like a keeper :naughty:

    Any special way planned on doing it?
     
  25. LEFTY02

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    not yet but i better think of seomthing soon, i really want it to be special tho. she deserves it.
     

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