Recently for me it's become a weekly occurrence, some one will ask me "what do you do in your free time?" and I'll say something along the lines of "Watch movies, play video games, surf the web, hang out with my gf and dog, try to bulk up. " And instead of asking me about what movies I like, or what kind of dog I have like a normal person, they jump to "Oh you're one of those people, you know you can go outside instead of sitting in your room playing games all day, right?" "Or I can do whatever the fuck I want with out people whining about it, ...oh wait I guess not." But is there really anything a gamer could say to someone in defense? If they're going to look down on you there isn't really much you can say to change their mind.